1. Establish rules: First of all, parents need to make clear family rules for their children so that they can know what they can and can't do. These rules should be fair and not biased because of the age or sex of the child.
2. Consistency: Once the rules are set, parents need to stick to them and can't compromise because of their children's crying or pleading. This can help children to establish good behavior habits.
3. Lead by example: Parents are role models for their children, and their behavior will directly affect their children. Therefore, parents need to educate their children through their own behaviors, such as obeying rules and respecting others.
4. Active guidance: When children do something wrong, parents should guide them with understanding and acceptance, not blame and punishment. This can help children build their self-reflection ability and correct their mistakes.
5. Cultivate a sense of responsibility: Parents can let their children participate in family life and cultivate their sense of responsibility by arranging housework tasks.
6. Encourage and praise: When children do the right thing or make progress, parents should give them timely encouragement and praise, which can enhance their self-confidence and stimulate their enthusiasm.
7. Appropriate punishment: Parents can appropriately punish some serious wrong behaviors, but the way of punishment should be education and guidance, not corporal punishment or mental torture.
Generally speaking, educating Xiong Haizi requires parents' patience and wisdom, treating children with understanding, acceptance and love, and helping children to establish good behavior habits and values.