How to educate naughty children
1, health activities guide children
Children are too naughty, parents are very painful, and parents are not at ease when children are so worried. Then parents can find their children's favorite health activities, such as playing football or playing ball, and let them let go of themselves. Parents had better do it with their children. In this way, naughty children will spend more energy on healthy activities, which is not only good for children, but also helpful for parent-child relationship.
2. Give naughty children more opportunities to perform.
Parents and teachers like to learn from polite children, and when parents and teachers often don't show them naughty children, naughty children will make things out of thin air and easily come out to do naughty things. Because children have nothing to do, parents and teachers can give naughty children more opportunities to participate, encourage them to slowly correct their behavior, and let naughty children gradually realize that naughty teachers and parents prefer it.
3. Cultivate children's self-control ability
Children's naughty is not intentional, and even children don't think they are naughty. Children still think naughty is normal behavior. It is very necessary to cultivate children's self-control ability. When children are naughty, they are used to poor self-control. Parents are used to naughty parents, and children will infinitely enlarge their naughty. Without self-control and restraint, children will not feel too naughty. Therefore, it is very important for parents to cultivate their children's self-control ability.
4. Correction of children's attention deficit
Parents know that children are too naughty not only because of their self-control and parents' education, but also because of their own problems. Children's attention deficit leads to children being active, naughty and hands-on. When the brain is idle, it will urge children to move, otherwise they will feel bored. Only when children are naughty and use their brains more will they not feel bored.
5. Let children use their imagination.
Children like to scribble when they are young, or they like it out of thin air. Vividly describing what they yearn for is the bud of imagination and creativity. It is also a wonderful and interesting thing for parents to allow their children to think, talk and share their inner world. For children who love graffiti, please don't forbid it, and don't criticize their graffiti unnecessarily. "Where is this like a dog?" "Where is Elephant Purple?" Wait a minute. To train children to create, please let them draw the trees, houses, flowers and grass in their minds. It is not necessary to stipulate that flowers are like objects.
6. Let children think fully
The brain will "rust" without moving or thinking. Therefore, we must not let our minds go to waste. To cultivate children's thinking ability, we must let them think more. Only by thinking independently can we handle things by ourselves and judge right and wrong. So there is no need to complain about children's mistakes, because children can think and learn from them, exercise and improve their thinking ability.
7. Let children grow up from mistakes.
Parents should not mind that their children often make mistakes and make themselves angry. Don't complain that children are naughty and waste time. In fact, children will have more learning opportunities if they encounter more difficulties and try more. Only through one thing can you gain wisdom. The condition is that parents must give guidance so that children can be inspired after encountering a nail, and this nail will be valuable. Moreover, from wrong to right is a valuable process.
How to guide naughty children
1, parents should have a correct attitude towards their children's mischief.
Many parents are simply afraid of their children being naughty in order to save trouble. In their eyes, the quieter the child, the better. The more noisy, the more naughty, and the worse, the less valuable. In fact, this attitude is extremely undesirable. In fact, innocence, naivety and liveliness are children's nature. They are curious about the whole world and devote themselves to various activities to get in touch with and know the world. It should be said that children's activities are a process of understanding the world during their growth. It is through these processes that children improve their understanding of the world, enrich their emotions, temper their will and improve their thinking. If our children stay at home all day and are not interested in anything and don't want to take part in any activities, I think this is what we are more worried about.
2, pay attention to guide children into hobbies.
Seduce them with things or things they like. Sometimes, we can look at their hobbies and let them take some interest classes appropriately. On the one hand, it consumes their energy, on the other hand, it can increase their knowledge and improve some abilities. For example, they like playing football. You can play with them and put down your airs like a friend. In study and life, you can lower your posture appropriately, study together like friends and companions, treat them like you, respect their self-esteem and discuss some problems with him. In this way, the child's temper will be more stable.
3. Take more children to participate in beneficial game activities.
Encourage children to participate in various beneficial and organized game activities, and exercise, standardize and cultivate children in the activities.
4. Give naughty children a chance to perform.
For fear of "naughty children" making trouble, teachers will try to reduce the number of times they take part in many activities. In this way, the opportunities for those children to display their talents are reduced, making people feel as if they are doing nothing but being naughty. In fact, many "naughty children" are extremely clever, and some have strong management ability and practical ability. We should satisfy their desire for expression as much as possible, and let them have the same opportunities to display their talents as other children.