If you talk too much, you will make mistakes. You should stop talking and be a person who can or can't do it. If you overdo anything, others will remember that if you talk too much, you will lose, and if you do too much, you will suffer. The noisier a person is, the weaker he is. Can he talk? More importantly, he can't talk. So, what do you know about four words that men shouldn't say?

Complain when ignored.

I always think of what Miss Amber said in my mind. He said: "Remember my classmates, in this world, people who really don't ignore you are concerned about you. Once one day they don't care about you, you are really nothing in their eyes. So, be grateful to those who value you. For those who ignore you, maybe it's because you hurt them, maybe it's because you haven't done enough, and others don't need to care too much about your feelings. To this end, it is useless to complain whether it is ignored by your lover or colleagues. You should show them the spirit of desperate Saburo.

Nonsense after frustration

Living can't be smooth sailing. When you are in amber, when you are frustrated, you like to think. Because of this, under the restriction of pessimism, you are prone to neurotic random guesses. Let's call this state of speaking nonsense, which may be venting for ourselves, but for the listener, it will produce inexplicable pressure and feel that he is demanding. Therefore, after being frustrated, the best attitude towards life is not to vent, but to examine yourself and objectively analyze the reasons for your frustration. Remember, the only thing that can save yourself in this world is yourself, and what others can do is to persuade.

Jealous of others gossiping

Jealousy is a bad habit that many people have. Apart from being bitter, at least so far, I really haven't found any benefits that jealousy can bring to my body and mind. The most obvious manifestation is that I hate being an official and having money. There's really no need to do this. Ask yourself first, what will happen if one day I become an official and become rich? Look at how many people in the world are theorizing about officials and the rich indiscriminately, and you can see how many people live in confusion. I really have the ability to be a big official and a rich man, but you have to think about it. Do you have that virtue? I hope that at that time, you can use your conscience, strength and strength to save more people around you who need help.

Say crazy things when you are affirmed.

When others affirm you, it means that you have really done a great job in a certain field, and the world needs words of praise. But don't get arrogant and lose yourself because of others' affirmation. Too much crazy talk will only make more people hate you and stay away from you. Remember, in addition to their own efforts, there are many people's support. I believe that smart people understand that water can carry a boat and also overturn it.