1, don't lie. Once some children do something wrong, they are used to using all kinds of lies to escape. Adults should make children understand that lies can't solve problems, they will only make things worse. Adults can try to put themselves in the child's shoes and tell him what is wrong according to his understanding level. Encourage him to be an honest boy.

2, reasonable satisfaction method, let the children say what they want. Parents must reasonably meet their children's shopping needs. Usually, we can tell our children clearly: when mom or dad reaches your age, we are particularly envious and eager to see other children buy what we like, so we tell our parents what we think and finally get what we like happily.

3. Reward and punishment incentives to awaken children's self-esteem and self-motivation. When children are encouraged by rewards and punishments, their inner self-esteem and self-motivation will be constantly awakened, and they will be more consciously affirmed and praised by their parents.

The psychological guilt caused by not doing well will continue to strengthen. After a long time, children will form a good habit of reasonable consumption and bid farewell to stealing and lying completely.

4. Let children realize their mistakes. Whenever a child does something wrong, adults always habitually blame the child, but they don't want to know why the child made the mistake. Sometimes, children refuse to admit their mistakes, perhaps because they don't know where they are wrong yet. When a child makes a mistake, what adults should do is to patiently correct the child, why it is wrong and what the result will be. Only when children are clearly aware of their mistakes will they know how to correct them.