A way to educate children in the rebellious period: 1. Have a good tutor.
Some psychologists believe that the rebellious behavior and psychology of teenagers are mostly formed in childhood. This has a lot to do with family upbringing. Therefore, to prevent teenagers' rebellious behavior, we must first start from parents. First of all, pay attention to communication with children's parents; Communicate with children more and form a correct attachment relationship: educate children not to be too strict and not to spoil them too much. Secondly, we should control our emotions. Couples shouldn't make a scene in front of their children. They should maintain harmonious family relations and give their children a warm home.
2. Respect and trust children.
As the saying goes, the essence is "the stone opens with sincerity." Parents should first respect students' personality, avoid corporal punishment or corporal punishment in disguised form, and be cynical and psychologically violent towards their children. Secondly, we should respect children's personality and stimulate their self-esteem. Only in this way can we cultivate creative and innovative talents.
3. Be a good gfd.
Self-willed and rebellious, even if something goes wrong, parents or teachers will not correct it and let it go. When I grow up, my habits have become very natural and difficult to change. As a teacher or a parent. We should learn to transcend the role of teachers. Listen to their voices patiently like friends and look for the root of their rebellion from different angles.
4. Learn to communicate and set an example.
Educator Comenius said: "Parents should be the leaders of children, not the supervisors." As parents, they should lead by example everywhere and everything. We must respect the emotion and personality of teenagers.
The second method of educating rebellious children: the first step is to face up to the rebellious psychology of children without prejudice.
If you encounter a child's rebellious mentality, you must be aware that this is a normal phenomenon. In fact, rebellious psychology also contains many positive qualities, such as strong self-awareness, strong competitiveness and innovative spirit. Parents should be good at discovering the creative quality and pioneering consciousness in rebellious psychology and guiding them reasonably. As long as it is properly guided, rebellious psychology can play a positive role in modern society.
Step two, don't argue with children, don't embarrass them.
Boys who are in a rebellious period will become very grumpy. They think that everything their parents do goes against their wishes. They often show helplessness, anxiety and loneliness. They feel that no one can understand their inner world, so parents should first understand their children's situation.
The third step is to give children space and freedom and try to communicate with them actively.
Boys in the rebellious period will gradually lose their attachment to their parents as they did when they were young, but they will often find their own space to vent and express themselves. Therefore, as parents, don't think that children are not sensible as children, but should care more about their children and actively communicate with them.
The fourth step is to master the correct communication methods and guide the children out of the incorrect range.
Children who are in a rebellious period often show cynicism and feel that this environment and society do not belong to them. They always show that their parents and family members don't understand, such as dyeing their hair in various colors and saying things that only their peers can understand. This is why parents should not always talk to their children in a complaining and critical tone, but learn to communicate and explain correctly with their children.
The fifth step is to be more patient with children and more tolerant and understanding of their behavior.
Children in the rebellious period often disappoint adults, because they don't pay attention to all the family rules and school rules they will show, because they think they have grown up and have their own ideas and opinions. They don't want to be controlled by someone, and they don't want to obey anyone, including their parents. All this also makes parents feel anxious, but as parents, we should not just be anxious, but learn to understand and tolerate.