So if you find that the admission notice is missing, you can contact the school, inform the teacher in advance that the admission notice is lost, and ask the teacher how to deal with it. Generally speaking, the enrollment data of freshmen have long been in the freshman system of the school. As long as you can prove your identity, such as ID card and household registration book, you can report to the school smoothly.
Just like this girl in the news, not only did she not have an admission notice, but even her ID card and household registration book were taken away by her mother. This situation is a little more complicated. You can contact the school admissions office as soon as possible to explain the situation, and the school will give you a "green light" if necessary.
As far as I know, Jia Jia, a girl in the news, has contacted the school, and the school also said that Jia Jia can report directly, and promised to reprint the admission notice to facilitate her admission procedures.
Although the loss of the admission notice will not affect the students' registration at school, the specific matters such as registered permanent residence's transfer procedures, file registration, student bank accounts, credit cards and meal cards will be very troublesome, and the commemorative significance of the admission notice is far higher than the actual significance, so we should keep it well!
Pay attention to the follow-up of this news:
The daughter responded that the admission notice was stolen by her mother and was not allowed to enter the school: the admission materials have been reissued, but I am not sure if I can enter the school.
On the 22nd, Jia Jia said in an interview that the admission materials had been reissued, but on June 28th,/kloc-0, her mother suddenly appeared at the door of her room and wouldn't let her go out. Now she is not sure whether she can go to school.
People watching this news are suffocating. It is not difficult to see from this incident that the mother's sense of control over her daughter is so strong that she wants to control all of her daughter.
Teacher Wu Zhihong, a psychologist, once had a very classic saying: "The more you control, the more out of control."
This sentence profoundly reveals a phenomenon in interpersonal relationships: when a person tries to control others excessively, he will lose control of the other person.
In interpersonal relationships, immature individuals often have no real love, but turn their own needs into others' requirements. The love they show is actually a kind of control behavior, aiming at satisfying their own needs and depriving others of their freedom. When they can't control others, they often respond with anger and revenge.
From this perspective, dependence is also an act of deprivation of freedom. True love needs to flow in a free and relatively independent space. It should not be based on dependence and control of others.
"Love out of necessity" and "love out of want" both satisfy their own needs by relying on others. This kind of love seems to have a loving component, but it is actually a means to control and force others to obey. This kind of love will only push people further and further.
I hope this mother can realize that every child is an independent individual, not an accessory of her own. In the face of children's growth and departure, parents are reluctant and uneasy, and it is very normal to worry that their children will make mistakes and encounter setbacks in major life choices. However, this should not be the reason for "doing whatever it takes".