What if my daughter is lazy?
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Children are lazy and not motivated, which is a problem that many parents will encounter. At this time, we should start to look at this problem from our own perspective. At the same time, we should find out the reason why he is not motivated, and then prescribe the right medicine.
Find the reason and prescribe the right medicine.
First of all, we should see if we are lazy and give a bad demonstration to our children. If so, then try to change the status quo and let parents set an example. The power of example is great. If there is a lazy person in the family, it will set a bad example for the children. Children will follow suit.
In addition, it depends on the friends the children make. If all his friends are lazy and playful children, they will also give him a bad demonstration. Try to stay away from these children. There is a classic story about Meng Mu's three steps. Why did she keep walking is to create good conditions for children to learn and keep Mencius away from some bad demonstrations.
Give him more positive hints and guidance. You can take him to see some inspirational movies to stimulate his inner potential and make him equal with these people. You can buy some biographies and history books, so that he can examine his behavior from a historical perspective and be on an equal footing with some excellent self-disciplined people in history. With an example, you will naturally become excellent. At the same time, be good at encouraging and guiding him, praise him if he makes progress, and let him know what is right.
Finally, tidy up the housework, so that there is a good learning environment at home. Some parents like to play mobile phones and watch TV. When children come into contact with these, they develop these bad hobbies, thus neglecting their studies and leading to weariness of learning. Create a learning environment and atmosphere at home. Don't take the lead in watching TV at inappropriate times, buy more books, and at the same time make the home look more tidy and orderly, so that children can subconsciously accept such an environment and yearn for learning.