In my opinion, the most important thing for young children is to cultivate their self-confidence. With self-confidence, many problems can be overcome by yourself. In this process, parents play the role of guides. As children's environment, learning content, schedule and self-care requirements have changed greatly, parents should realize in advance that these changes will inevitably occur and take targeted measures. To this end, summing up past experience provides parents and children with a menu of preparation items: a. It is very important for children to learn self-care ability and living habits. Kindergarten is a collective life, and there are teachers all day. If you encounter difficulties in life, the teachers will help you. After entering primary school, you should tie your shoelaces, go to the toilet and prepare school supplies by yourself. Children's slow movements and poor ability will inevitably affect their study. I hope parents will remember that children should be allowed to do what they can and should do. When a child encounters difficulties, we should inspire him and help him build up confidence and determination. For example, eating at school is not like giving children a lot of time in kindergarten, so we should train our children to eat faster from now on and try not to exceed half an hour; Like toilets, kindergartens can urinate anytime and anywhere, but primary schools have discipline requirements, and children's pants should be untied every year at the beginning of school. So parents should cultivate their children's toilet rules. B. Teaching methods do not teach knowledge. After entering school, learning is the main thing. Parents can prepare some basic knowledge, but don't let their children accept specific textbook knowledge too early. Knowledge cannot be taught. The first thing to teach children is good study habits and proper study methods. Get ready for school. Let children develop the habit of thinking with their brains and attach importance to the intelligent development behind children's cognition, reading and calculation. In addition, we should pay special attention to the cultivation of children's interest, enthusiasm, concentration and persistence in learning. For example, let children finish painting, paper cutting, writing and other activities within a limited time, and let children concentrate on doing one thing well for a period of time, which is helpful to adapt to the requirements of class time. C. let children learn to sit still and listen. Many primary school teachers have this experience. If the classroom content is rich, interesting and attractive, students will fully absorb it. This is more suitable for freshmen. In addition to classroom teaching, parents should also tell their children more stories, fairy tales, poems and other literary works, so that children can develop the habit of sitting quietly and listening to lectures, and lay a good foundation for their children to sit quietly after entering school. D. talk to children more. When you see some scenes of going out to play, parents can consciously say "tall buildings", watch the Lantern Festival "crowded with people", the park "pink green" and so on. And help children expand their vocabulary through conversation and lay the foundation for reading. Talking to him more about various topics will help children improve their language ability.