We also see that some parents will tell their children some moral values observed in the adult world, but children often can't understand them. Because children need to experience constantly in the process of growing up, they will gradually understand.
He hasn't experienced, touched or experienced much personally, and he doesn't understand the reason. Therefore, we often advise parents, especially those in early childhood, not to put too much emphasis on reasoning and philosophy of life in the cultivation of children's rules. They can't understand that this period will make children have a lot of negative emotions.
The difference between family rules and kindergarten rules
Rules will make people form the self-discipline consciousness of procedural norms and the self-discipline consciousness of actively obeying rules. For young children, it is still in the embryonic stage. Rule consciousness is a normative behavior pattern, which should be cultivated from an early age and gradually formed. For young children, being at home is different from being in kindergarten.
At home, we should gradually cultivate regular work and rest habits, eating habits, hygiene habits and a good interaction model with our families.
After entering the kindergarten, you need to gradually learn to abide by the rules and regulations of the kindergarten. At the same time, we should also learn various rules of getting along with our peers, such as the rules of the game, the rules of getting along with our peers, the rules of group activities and so on.
Although the child is young, it is a primary stage of entering primary school, middle school, university and even society in the future. Although the rules we follow now are simple, they are very important.
It's important to form the habit of rule awareness, but don't rush for success. Because the development of children's awareness of rules follows certain rules, it is not only incomprehensible to impose some rules of adults on children prematurely, but also to destroy them or force them to abide by them.