"Godson" is the second part of Yan Zhitui's handed down work "Yan Family Instructions". This paper illustrates the importance of teaching children in two different ways, and educates people by borrowing things.
Godson portrait
Wang Sengbian's mother, Mrs. Wei, has a strict personality and a mean speech. At that time, Wang Sengbian had passed the age of no doubt, holding more than 3,000 people. However, if Wang Sengbian says something wrong or makes the old lady feel dissatisfied, then Mrs Wei will hit him with a stick. Wang Sengbian has made great achievements under her mother's strict discipline.
When Emperor Yuan lived, there was a gifted scholar who was loved by his father since childhood. If he does something good, his father will publicize and praise him. If he did something wrong, his father would cover it up for him without discipline. Later, the bachelor gradually grew up, and his grumpy personality gradually emerged. After all, one day he said something wrong, angered Zhou Wei, was killed, and died miserably.
Yan Zhitui showed the importance of educating children, and said that in the coming year, he could not spoil them by using various educational methods and different results.
"Godson" is the second article in "Yan Family Instructions", which mainly talks about the importance of godson and occupies a very important position in family education in later generations.
Yan Zhitui Yanshi Family Instructions
? Yan Zhitui did not occupy a high position in his life, nor did he have Hershey's achievements. However, he can enjoy a long-standing reputation by virtue of Yan Family Instructions, which shows the far-reaching influence of Yan Family Instructions in family education. Let's take a look at Yan's Spring and Autumn Annals.
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Yan Family Instructions is the first systematic family instruction in the history of China. Yan Zhitui admonishes his descendants with Confucianism to ensure their family status, which is a textbook for family education. It was regarded as "the norm of family education" by later generations.
This book, written from 589 to 605, was used by Yan Zhitui to exhort future generations after summing up his life experiences, thoughts and knowledge. The full text consists of 20 chapters, including teaching children, studying hard, and involving things.
Yan's family instructions are rich in connotation and have unique views on family ethics and moral cultivation, which still play an important role today.
Reading is the core content of family instruction. Yan Zhitui has always stressed the need to learn. What is rare is that Yan Zhitui emphasized that learning should not only include reading, but also attach importance to the knowledge of workers, peasants and soldiers and businessmen. The second is to find the right direction of life and choose the right life idol, which will determine what kind of life a person has. Therefore, when choosing idols, we should "choose the sages". Finally, there must be a clear educational policy, with special emphasis on the exemplary role of parents, which has a subtle influence on children's growth in details.
Family Instructions of Yan Family was written by Yan Zhitui, an educator, and it was his summary of scholar-officials' research. It has played a very important role in family education, and it is also a treasure in the history of family education in China. Although it is still elegant after thousands of years, it is a model for implementing family education.
Yan Zhitui's Educational Thought
? Yan Zhitui is a famous educator in the history of China. His book "Yan Family Instructions" was regarded as "the norm of family education" by later generations, which had a very far-reaching impact on family education in later generations, and his educational thoughts were also reflected in this book. So, what is Yan Zhitui's educational thought?
Portrait of Yan Zhitui
Yan Zhitui mainly used traditional Confucianism to educate future generations, and many of his thoughts still have great reference significance to reality. He advocates studying hard and opposes being unlearned. He believes that learning should not only read books, but also pay attention to the knowledge of workers, peasants and soldiers, businessmen and other aspects. Advocating that learning is more important than practice, there is no rhetoric, but there is no practical action. He despised the gentry's greed for pleasure, luxury and corruption, and thought that most dude children were uneducated people.
As for family education, Yan Zhitui thinks it is necessary to teach it as early as possible, even prenatal education, so that people who know etiquette and benevolence can teach it. Yan Zhitui also advocated strict education, combining strictness with kindness closely, which means that doting on children is harmful and not beneficial. In addition, we should also pay attention to the influence of the environment on children. Yan Zhitui believes that we should choose our friends carefully and put our children in a good social environment. This also includes that elders should carefully choose their neighbors, and the people around them will have a subtle and far-reaching influence on children. Moral education is also very important. He believes that moral education is based on moral education. Finally, we should attach importance to humanitarian education. It is necessary to sum up one's own life experience and educate children how to behave.
Yan Zhitui's educational thoughts have been passed down to this day, and many of them are still worth pondering and learning from. His educational thought is also very important to the family education of later generations.
Yan Zhitui's reading method.
? Yan Zhitui is a famous educator in the history of our country. His educational thoughts are still playing a very important role in this world. So what is his reading method? Next, let's look at his reading method.
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Yan Zhitui believes that reading is the core of family precepts, and the purpose of reading is to make you open-minded and bright-eyed, which is more conducive to doing practical things. For reading, Yan Zhitui believes that, first, reading must be modest and pragmatic, not complacent. Second: the scope of reading must be wide, so as to read widely. Only by expanding the reading range as much as possible can we absorb what we have learned and have a deeper understanding of what we have learned. While reading, we should also pay attention to cultivating our independent ability and life ability.
Third, we should cherish time and study hard. He believes that you must study hard, even if everyone has different comprehension ability of knowledge, you can master what you have learned as long as you are diligent. In addition, you must study early. I will be single-minded when I am young, and I will be disturbed by other things when I grow up. However, if you miss the best time to study, you should also seize other time to study. One should spend one's whole life studying. Fourth, we should find like-minded people to study together and learn from each other. In the process of learning, we should communicate with friends more, so that we can see different views in the communication and get new inspiration, which is conducive to the absorption of knowledge, and can also avoid one-sided view of the problem and avoid mistakes.
Yan Zhitui's reading method is reflected in his handed down book Family Instructions of Yan Family, which plays an important role in reading and learning.