1, strengthen communication. At this time, boys' self-awareness has increased and they don't like to communicate with their parents. They already have the idea of growing up in their hearts and often like to do things by themselves. At this stage, parents must take the initiative to communicate with boys, understand their ideas and cultivate their feelings.

2. Accompany boys and actively participate in boys' activities, causing psychological resonance. Active communication in daily life and study is not enough. Boys will have many activities, such as playing games, traveling in autumn and winter, etc. Parents should participate as much as possible and work hard with boys to complete the activities. Through the activities, the two sides can psychologically tolerate each other, resonate with each other and become real friends in boys' hearts.

3. Respect boys' hobbies and try to help boys finish what they like to do. Respect the boy's choice and the boy will respect you, so the advice or guidance you give the boy is easy for the boy to accept. This is also the establishment of a democratic and harmonious relationship within the family, which promotes the warmth and happiness of the family.