1, which affects the normal communication between parents and children.

Once a child is threatened by his mother, he will feel that his parents are forcing him to be smart or obedient, instead of loving them or even hurting them, because our behavior at that time was also threatened, and he felt that he would not be taken seriously in front of his parents and there would be no fair communication, so the child might show disdain, but such dissatisfaction might accumulate in the future.

2, it will damage children's self-confidence.

Parents' long-term threats and intimidation to children can easily make children lose confidence, especially when they are older, because this kind of cultural education gives children an established impression. If you don't follow your parents' standards, it may cause some bad influence and even make you lose something. For children, long-term threats and intimidation are an improper mental stimulation, but this kind of stimulation will always exist in their minds, so they have to think about everything and be afraid. That kind of teaching method makes children indulge themselves and become unconfident.

3, lead to children's psychological problems

Parents' "threatening education" will make children at a loss, and more importantly, it will determine the development trend of children's mental health. Some children even have risk mental health problems such as autism and depression. Because children have been influenced by their parents for a long time, their inner fears are constantly rising, and even they lose their sense of belonging. As long as their parents' tone is obvious, their degree of "worry" can be strengthened. There will be psychological shadows in the long run. With the inner shadow, children dare not put forward all the rules clearly at this stage and suppress their opinions because they are afraid of being threatened and not being recognized. Slowly, all emotions are accumulated in the heart, which is very unfavorable for the growth of children.