As we all know, children's growth is inseparable from their parents' family education.

What kind of person a child can grow up is directly related to the quality of family education.

In family education, there are two very important aspects: one is companionship, and the other is example.

Accompanying is the effective communication and interaction between parents and children. What parents need to understand here is that companionship should be effective, not just close in distance.

The companionship of some parents is actually not companionship, just like reading with children. As a result, the child was reading a book, and the parents sat next to the child and played with their mobile phones.

This kind of behavior is not companionship at all, but interference with children's growth, which can also be called "pit baby".

For another example, parents accompany their children to read books, and two people read books together to discuss the contents of exchange books. This is parent-child reading.

Or parents and children read two different books at the same time, although parents and children did not read a book together and did not discuss the contents of the book while reading.

But they create an atmosphere of studying together, and children can feel a sense of security and intimacy from their parents.

Therefore, parents should recognize what companionship is and that children are the protagonists of companionship.

After that, let's look at the role of role models.

This is a word often mentioned in the field of family education. Any child's behavior habits, personality hobbies, etc. Will be deeply influenced by parents.

How deep is it? It can almost be said that children are like parents.

The reason for this phenomenon is the role of parents in the process of family education, that is, the behavior of parents transmitting information to their children.

If parents often like swearing, then children may follow suit.

But in fact, children may not know the true meaning of swearing, but just think it is a normal way of communication. Isn't this cheating on children?

Therefore, parents must pay attention to transmitting correct information, useful information and important information when transmitting growth information to their children.

So, what is the most important thing when transmitting information? Yes, it is emotional intelligence and adversity quotient.

Why not IQ? In fact, IQ has been inherited since birth, because IQ is influenced by many innate factors.

EQ and adversity quotient are more important than nurture.

Emotional intelligence is an important ability for children to roam in modern society. If a child's EQ is not high enough, it will be difficult for him to enter the society in the future.

Of course, this phenomenon may have appeared when children go to school, but because the small society like schools does not respond so strongly to the low EQ, many people have not found the importance of EQ.

Adversity quotient is an important ability for children to deal with themselves, and its importance is completely different from emotional intelligence.

Some people may not understand, why should I deal with myself?

You think you are, but you are not.

For example, when children encounter difficulties, do they choose to retreat, stop or overcome? This depends on the child's adversity quotient level, that is, the child's own processing ability.

If children can convince themselves, they may try to overcome difficulties. If a child can't motivate himself, then he may shrink back or stagnate.

Put this situation into real life, and you will know the importance of adversity quotient.

For example, it is difficult for a child to meet a question in the exam, but this question will determine whether the child can achieve the ideal score.

If the child gives up this problem, his grades will be unsatisfactory, and he may not be admitted to the school he wants to attend, which will affect his life.

If children choose to work hard to solve this truth, they may get higher scores and reach their ideal scores, thus changing their lives.

So you should understand why the transmission of EQ and adversity quotient is very important, right?

Some people say that the choice of this kind of thing is very simple. I just have to choose to face the difficulties all the time. Then my life will shine.

Indeed, as long as children can always face difficulties, the more success they will naturally have.

But, you know, there is no need to say that anyone can do it with their mouths and actually do it. Some seemingly simple questions may really come to you and you will shrink back.

Why? Why do you choose to retreat when you know that overcoming difficulties can usher in the light?

Because you don't get along well with yourself and don't have enough adversity quotient, you were Zhuge Liang before encountering difficulties, and you became Liu Adou when encountering difficulties.

Adversity quotient needs to be cultivated and passed on from parents to children.

The improvement of adversity quotient is not the result of one day, but the crystallization of perseverance.

Some parents may find it difficult to pass on adversity quotient to their children, because they never received the adversity quotient Pass from their parents when they were young, so they don't know what to do.

In fact, the transmission theory of adversity quotient is simple and easy to say, but it is a negative transmission behavior to give up transmission because it is difficult to transmit adversity quotient.

Therefore, parents should pass on adversity quotient to their children anyway.

Of course, as parents, we can't send the wrong message to our children. Sometimes, we need some external forces to ensure the correctness of the information transmitted by adversity quotient.

If parents lack confidence in the accuracy of their information, it is suggested to prepare a set of picture books for children's adversity quotient training.

There are 12 volumes in this book, and each volume adopts short stories close to life. Adversity quotient is passed on to children from different themes, scenes and angles, which can make up for parents' shortcomings in this respect, thus helping children to improve their adversity quotient and achieve success.

Not only that, this book can not only help children improve their adversity quotient, but also help them develop a good learning attitude. When encountering difficulties, they can manage their emotions well and will not lose their temper casually.

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