We know that EQ is not IQ, and children with low EQ can be cultivated. Today, Bian Xiao will teach you how to cultivate your child's emotional intelligence. 1, develop endurance first. How to cultivate endurance? That is, when a child encounters difficulties, parents should not give him help immediately, but encourage him to stick to it. Just like a toddler, at the beginning, it is inevitable to fall. Parents just need to tell their children: it doesn't matter, stand up by yourself. After this repeated process, children will endure the unhappiness caused by setbacks and will soon succeed. 2. Cultivate adaptability. Children will integrate into this society as soon as possible one day. Children should have a gradual adaptation process before entering the society. Some parents rarely let their children go out, especially younger children, who are always worried about this and that, fearing that their children can't adapt to the weather, people and environment outside. Gradually, children are reluctant to go out on their own initiative and will cry when they meet strangers. Such children will shrink back when they grow up. As a parent, you should know that children have independent personalities. When he left his mother, he needed to adapt to a brand-new environment. If you don't give your child a chance, his adaptability will naturally not sprout. 3. Cultivate curiosity and exploration spirit. At first, children passively accept external stimuli. With the growth of age, children gradually become curious about everything around them and want to try to touch and see. I want to try whether the hot water is really that hot, feel whether the power socket is charged and see why the plane is flying in the sky. If parents don't let their children move when their curiosity is budding, because they are afraid that their children will be hurt or make mistakes, then when you want him to be interested in doing something in the future, he will be too lazy to move. 4. Cultivate the spirit of unity and cooperation. Nowadays, many only children don't know how to integrate into the team, and they don't have the spirit of teamwork and respect for others. We should tell our children that as long as it is a team of more than two people, we should consider other people's ideas and respect their opinions. So I won't work alone in the future. 5. Cultivate self-confidence. Self-confidence is gained by your own actions. Children who are always fed can't eat by themselves. So, when the child wants to take the spoon by himself, let him take it, even though he knows it will make the rice grains all over the floor. When a child thinks that he has done something worthy of praise from an adult, as a parent, he should encourage his child at an appropriate time, even if it is a smile of approval.