It means trying to prove your ability, rather than relying on the background, economy and other resources given by your parents. We shouldn't expect our parents to support us for life. One day they will get old. What we can do is to make ourselves grow faster than our parents.

Be a down-to-earth, down-to-earth middle-aged man, be a man, don't live in a trance, daydream, worry about nothing, rely on yourself without a backer; No money, earn it yourself.

Take on more responsibilities, prop up all the tempering, stand too many tests, and take on, you will be strong; Hang in there. You won.