Many parents will have this problem. My children always don't like wearing shoes. They always run around barefoot on the ground and go outside. They don't even like wearing socks. Summer is fine, but it's autumn and it's very cold. If they stop wearing shoes, they may catch a cold. What will you say and do about it?

There are many reasons why parents don't let older children walk barefoot, such as unsanitary, afraid that children will step on sharp things, afraid that their feet will get cold and get sick, and there is also a requirement of social etiquette and etiquette. Therefore, every time parents encounter the situation that children don't wear shoes, they are eager to force their children to wear them. However, if you can't even find the reason why children don't like to wear shoes, the solution that treats the symptoms rather than the root cause will definitely make children repeat it again and again.

Why don't children like to wear shoes?

First, children like the feeling of not wearing shoes. Children's feet directly touch the ground, which will bring them a completely different feeling from wearing shoes.

Second, children are imitating their parents. If parents often walk barefoot or don't wear socks, children will learn well. If parents insist on asking their children to wear shoes at this time, it is equivalent to setting two different boundaries, and the children will definitely not cooperate. Therefore, in terms of living habits, if parents can't do it themselves, don't ask their children to do the same.

Third, children feel hot feet. This situation is generally affected by season, weather temperature and children's liveliness. However, the physical activity of children is very large relative to the overall physical condition, and it is easy to sweat, which leads to the discomfort of children's feet and reluctance to wear shoes.

Fourth, children's shoes are not suitable and uncomfortable to wear. Nowadays, many children's shoes are unreasonable in design and beautiful, but they are hard and the uppers are worn, or the soles are thick, so that children can't feel the touch of the soles. Therefore, it is not easy for children to grow up wearing suitable shoes, and sometimes it is understandable that they don't like wearing shoes.

Fifth, children do this on purpose to attract attention. Many parents always try to convince their children, which is equivalent to giving them more negative attention. Not only is it difficult to change their behavior of not wearing shoes, but it also makes them think that it can attract the attention of their parents, especially for some insecure children. Parents' compulsion becomes the driving force to strengthen children's certain behavior.

So how to guide children to fall in love with the habit of wearing shoes?

1, don't ask the baby to change his shoes when he goes home. Now the baby is not stupid at all. When they go out, they will wear shoes If they go home, Ma Bao and the baby won't change their shoes. They probably forgot to have shoes on their feet out of inertia. Therefore, if the weather causes the baby's health to be affected by not wearing shoes, then Ma Bao should not be afraid that the baby's shoes will dirty the ground, or drag around for several laps. What is dirty compared to the baby's health?

2. Put the shoes at the baby's feet. For example, when the baby is reading a picture book, you inadvertently put the shoes next to the baby and wait for the baby to get up. You don't mind wearing it. Don't remind me if you don't wear it, don't talk about it. If you put them on, you will look at them properly. Do this more often, and the baby will naturally wear it. However, it should be noted that the baby is running around the house, and Ma Bao should stop chasing the baby to wear shoes, which is too obvious.

3. Make the baby think that everything is alive by playing games. Ma Bao can be flexible according to the baby's preferences and induce them to wear shoes. For example, you pretend to be a baby's little foot and say, "I'm so cold!" " Master, can you dress me? "Or on the other hand, in the tone of shoes," my little master doesn't want me, I have no home! ".In the face of such a game, the baby thinks it is very fun and may put on his shoes smoothly.

4. Choosing comfortable and good shoes and inappropriate shoes is one of the important reasons why babies don't like to wear them, and it is also easy to cause foot diseases or abnormal development of babies, which affects walking posture. Baby's shoes, preferably breathable, soft and light. Use buckles or elastic bands instead of shoelaces, and the size should be appropriate. Leave a gap the size of an adult's little finger. Too big or too small will affect the baby's comfort and reduce happiness.

5. Let the baby choose for himself. Babies often hold or use their favorite things, as do shoes. Let the baby choose his favorite indoor shoes, they may love to wear them because they like them. There are also padded children's non-slip indoor socks, which are comfortable to wear and not cold when stepping on the floor. Many babies like it.

6. Let the baby experience the consequences of not wearing shoes. Babies need to learn by doing. He must experience the consequences of not wearing shoes first hand to understand why he wears them. For example, if a baby really walks barefoot, leaving mud or water on the soles of his feet, he will naturally feel that he is wearing shoes well, and over time he will choose to wear his own shoes.