The success or failure of a child has an inestimable influence on the family and even the whole society. How should parents, as children's first teachers and guardians, guide and educate their children to grow up healthily? There is really a lot of learning here. Let me tell you who I think. 1, the power of example is infinite. I remember an advertisement called: Wash your mother's feet. If our parents can always be role models for their children, use their own civilized language, don't drink or gamble, be positive, work hard, be tolerant of others, and manage the family diligently. Children naturally see it in their eyes, remember it in their hearts, and put it into action. 2. Help children to establish correct values and outlook on life. Different people have different ideas. Different people have different cultural backgrounds, ways of thinking, values and outlook on life. These should make the child understand gradually, avoid him being "self-centered" in everything, tolerate others' opposite things, and let him learn to be tolerant from the perspective of respect.

Educate children to be indifferent to fame and fortune. Self-motivation is a necessary condition for children's growth. While encouraging children to be self-motivated, we should guard against the growth of vanity. Excessive vanity will inevitably lead to mental imbalance, jealousy and hatred will follow, and tolerance will be impossible. Guide children to appreciate and understand others with love, no matter whether their grades are good or bad, their family is rich or poor, their looks are beautiful or ugly, and their health is equal. Children should be guided to appreciate and discover the beautiful side with loving heart. 3. It is more important to listen to children than to do housework. When a child encounters a problem, parents should not care too much about the problem itself, do not nag and preach, but consider the child's feelings and listen to the child's inner thoughts. When children talk to their parents, it is the best time for parents to know their children. At the same time, parents' good listening behavior is undoubtedly telling their children that parents care about him and care about him. In this way, when a child has troubles and happy things, he is willing to tell his parents and share them with them. Parents can also learn more about their children through this good parent-child communication.