Stay calm: First of all, parents should stay calm and don't get too excited or angry. It is necessary to deal with problems rationally and help children resolve conflicts.
Know the situation: parents should know the story and the reason, let the children tell the story and listen to their thoughts and feelings. This helps to better understand the problem and find the appropriate solution.
Guide children to solve problems: parents can guide children to learn how to solve problems, such as communication, negotiation and compromise. You can ask children what to do, let them think and express their ideas.
Give advice and guidance: In the process of guiding children to solve problems, parents can give some advice and guidance. For example, you can tell children how to express their thoughts and feelings, how to listen to others' opinions, how to control their emotions and so on.
Encourage children to solve conflicts independently: when children can solve conflicts independently, parents should give encouragement and support. This can enhance children's self-confidence and problem-solving ability, and also help them build better interpersonal relationships.
Cultivate children's empathy: In the process of dealing with contradictions, parents can cultivate children's empathy. It can make children put themselves in other people's shoes and understand other people's feelings and thoughts. This helps to reduce conflicts and help children build more harmonious interpersonal relationships.
Don't take sides: Parents should avoid taking sides when dealing with conflicts between children. It is necessary to be fair and objective, help children sort out what happened and why, and guide them to find suitable solutions.
Respect children's feelings: when children feel wronged or sad, parents should give comfort and support. You can hug them and let them feel the care and support of their parents. At the same time, we should also respect children's feelings and don't force them to do things they don't want to do.
Cultivate good social habits: In daily life, parents can cultivate their children's good social habits, such as sharing rent, queuing and respecting others. This can help children better adapt to collective life and reduce conflicts.
Help children learn to control their emotions: Parents can help children learn to control their emotions when they are fighting. Children can be taught how to recognize and express their emotions and help them find appropriate ways to deal with them. This can help children better control their emotions and reduce conflicts.
Strengthen family values: Family values are an important foundation for children's healthy growth. Parents can strengthen family values through small things in daily life, such as respecting others, caring for others and sharing. This can help children form correct moral concepts and behavior habits and reduce the occurrence of slapstick incidents.
In short, when children fight, parents need to keep calm, understand the situation, guide children to solve problems, give advice and guidance, encourage children to solve conflicts independently, cultivate children's empathy, do not take sides, respect children's feelings, cultivate good social habits, help children learn to control their emotions and strengthen family values. These measures can help children learn how to deal with contradictions and solve problems, and also promote their growth and development.