This drama is about the helplessness of middle school students in big cities and the abnormal anxiety of their parents. With Fang Duoduo and their parents as the main line, three middle school students showed the changes and choices of their families before the college entrance examination, among which Bian Xiao was deeply impressed by blossoming? Run away from home? Yes! Mother Wen Jie arranged too many courses for Duo Duo, paying too much attention to her study, so that she ignored the child's inner thoughts. Duoduo wanted to be the general director of the New Year's Eve party, and secretly rehearsed with a group of classmates. Finally, Wen Jie found out and embarrassed her on the spot. Later, blossoming felt too stressed and wanted to go out for a walk, so she left school with her tie and got lost and came home late. During this period, Wen Jie and his wife frantically searched for children. From this paragraph, we must think about how Wen Jie needs to reflect when parents are faced with children's education problems.

First, it's too strict. Wen Jie is really too strict with Duo Duo. The mother and daughter, who could have confided in each other, were so strict that they would rather join their father's camp than say anything to their mother. In addition, Wen Jie's strength is not only for blossoming, but also for her husband Fiona Fang. She has every right to speak in front of the children. She doesn't want to listen to the children's ideas, just gives orders blindly, and even makes decisions directly without the children's consent, which makes the adolescent blossoming very disgusted! After a long time, I always discuss with my father at the first time, and then negotiate with my father and mother, so that the distance between mother and daughter is getting bigger and bigger, and Wenjie is getting farther and farther on the road of educating children!

Second, I love it too much. Wen Jie loves blossoming, so much so that he can't breathe, so much so that he can't bear to be hurt. Especially after blossoming, Wen Jie will collapse. When blossoming comes back, Wen Jie seems to be able to give up everything and accept bad blossoming!

Looking at the poor child, Wen Jie was too sad, moved and distressed to say a harsh word, but as a father, Fiona Fang taught his daughter a lesson. Duoduo is fourteen years old and is no longer an ignorant pupil. She has her own ideas. She should know what impact her leaving without permission will have on her school and family, but she has never thought about anything except taking care of her own thoughts and doing whatever she wants. This kind of behavior really deserves criticism! However, in the face of her husband's rare harshness, Wen Jie repeatedly stopped him. When a child makes a mistake but says nothing, what can he bring except connivance and doting? ?

Third, it is too utilitarian. Wen Jie is a strong woman in her career and in her family. It's really hard to see her expression that she only recognizes scores and ignores children's feelings! Tell your child that you can be free, control your own time, and have your own ideas. She thinks this is to respect the child, but once the child does something she is not satisfied with, she will immediately go into a rage and feel that all her efforts are in vain. In the eyes of blossoming, her mother's crocodile tears made her very tired and embarrassed the family atmosphere. On the surface, they are all for their own good, but the utilitarian heart has hurt the child's heart. The only thing that blossoming can do is to study hard and give it to parents as a gift. Seeing their utilitarian smiles, they can catch their breath a little. Do you feel all this pain and tenderness?