But most of them have preconditions.

First, if parents are well educated and have enough ability to plan the growth route for their children, then under the education of tiger mother and wolf father, the children will grow up in strict accordance with their parents' plans. If the plans are strict enough, the children will be excellent;

Second, if the restrictions on children are appropriate, adolescent children's rebellious psychology will not be too strong and it will be easier to educate.

Disadvantages are as follows:

First of all, this kind of education requires parents to have strong abilities and family members to provide a good environment. If not, it is easy for children to have huge deviations in the process of growing up;

Secondly, compared with their peers, children who grow up in this way will be relatively indecisive, afraid to make up their minds, and their creativity is relatively poor, so training in this area is relatively difficult;

Thirdly, the living environment of such children is very difficult. Once you leave your parents when you grow up, you are likely to be stronger, unwilling to listen to your parents' psychology, and even have some psychological distortions.

In addition, children who grow up like this rarely have the ability to surpass their parents.

I personally don't recommend educating children like this. After all, there are too few parents who can plan and execute perfectly, and their children's lives will be very unhappy. Perhaps as a parent, I will always think that "I am doing good for my children", but many times, your children will not understand your behavior and will blame you. Once there is an unknown mistake in your plan, the children will find it ineffective after their efforts, and the consequences can be imagined.

Parents who have ideas about this kind of education can try to read Liu Zongyuan's biography of planting trees and camels, which can give some simple explanations to parents who have doubts. In the end, whether they choose to do this depends on their own situation.