Educate children not to eat hard and not to eat soft, but also to "apply both hard and soft", and the measures taken should be practical and effective to avoid applying both hard and soft. The so-called softness does not mean pleasing children, accommodating children, or inducing them with materials.

Understand children's behavior

To understand children's behavior, understand the needs behind children's behavior. For example, if teachers or parents can "point out" their behavior needs for children's "grabbing other people's toys" or "provoking other children"-"Teachers/parents know that children don't really want to annoy children, but just want to play with them, don't they?" Then, it is possible to "soften" the child's "heart of stone."

Adhere to principles and have a clear attitude.

The real hard performance lies in adhering to principles and having a clear attitude.

Guide the children.

It is manifested in understanding children, guiding them, and making them realize that making changes or correcting mistakes can win the love of their parents.