Children are naughty and disobedient, but parents just don't listen. There is no way but to emphasize one's authority as a parent in an imperative tone, so as to force children to obey. In essence, it is actually a manifestation that parents don't understand education.

I don't know if you have noticed that children born after 20 10 have changed a lot compared with our childhood: nowadays, children will lose their temper when they are five or six years old, throw things and hit people at every turn. What is even more frightening is that they are addicted to games and completely ignore their parents' persuasion. In the face of children's rebellion and naughty, parents say bad things, but children just don't listen. Parents who have no choice but to put on airs and emphasize their authority as parents in an imperative tone in order to achieve the purpose of educating their children.

However, such education is not a qualified education in essence. Because it's just the authority of parents? Forced? The child obeyed and failed to let the child know what was wrong with his behavior. The correct approach should be to establish the spirit of children's contract from an early age and agree with children on corresponding punishment and incentive measures.

When punishing children, they must be strictly enforced and must not be discounted; Similarly, you should be willing to spend money when you promise to buy prizes for your children. Never break your word. Only when parents strictly enforce it can they convey it to their children subtly? Keep your word? Life creed, future education will be convenient and simple.

In my opinion, this kind of contract education is one of the most suitable education methods for China families at present. In the process of educating children, the feelings between parents and children can be deepened, and children will not embark on the road of rebellion and willfulness. If it is contract education, children will definitely not have compulsory education.

But then again, some parents know little about their children's education because of their own limitations. Coupled with the naughty children, they are too lazy to bother. They just educate their children in this simple and rude way as an imperative tone. What's more, they will educate their children with sticks.