1. Economic pressure: Getting married and holding a wedding may require a lot of financial investment, including buying wedding rings, taking wedding photos, holding a wedding and honeymoon. In addition, after marriage, you need to bear family expenses, such as housing, food, medical care, education and other expenses, which will put some pressure on the economy.

2. Family responsibilities: after marriage, you need to bear family responsibilities, including taking care of family members, managing family affairs and sharing family burdens. These responsibilities may affect a person's time, energy and career development.

3. Social pressure: After marriage, you may be under pressure from society and relatives, such as expectations of marriage, childbirth and role norms. These pressures may have an impact on personal choices and lifestyles.

4. Personal growth: After marriage, personal growth and development may be affected to some extent. For example, in marriage, both parties need to adapt, coordinate and compromise with each other, which may have an impact on personal character and development.

5. Divorce risk: After marriage, for various reasons, there may be contradictions and differences between husband and wife, which will eventually lead to divorce. Divorce may bring a series of negative effects, such as property division, child support, relatives and friends.

These disadvantages are not to say that marriage is bad, but to remind everyone that when making a marriage decision, we should take these factors into account and make full preparations.