No, the reason may be that Zhihu is a Chinese forum, but it is more likely that your English is not very good and you can only think and ask questions in Chinese, although asking questions in English is more pretentious.

Let's go back to the first question, "Will you educate your children the way your parents taught you?" There is no doubt that the way parents educate their children is equivalent to your mother tongue and is the most familiar way of education. If you have no professional training, this is probably the only way for you to educate your children. Without this way, what can you use to educate your children? With American parents' education, but neither can you. You have studied for a long time, and you have only learned a little.

Sociologists abroad have done research. One reason for the formation of class solidification is that the children of the working class are also working, and the children educated by the middle class and the upper class also have the characteristics of their own class, so they can seamlessly integrate into their own class.

Children are replicas of their parents, and what their parents are like, children are also like to a great extent. Even if they later received formal education and went outside to see the world, their parents taught them the way of thinking in their bones, which is their "mother thinking".