Parents often indulge their children, and everything is under their control. They would rather suffer for themselves than let their children suffer a little injustice. As a result, children often take me as the center everywhere, becoming selfish, bossy and willful "little bullies", lacking sympathy and sense of responsibility, not knowing how to respect others, and often looking down on their parents who raised them with hardships.
2. Cultivate children's sense of independence. Many single parents rely on their children and regard them as the only hope in life, lest they be unsafe and have accidents. Take care of children's lives, let children develop the habit of reaching for clothes and living within their means from an early age, and take various measures to limit their activities. This is not good, this is not allowed. Because of fear of children's problems, children can't be independent in everything, and they don't have the opportunity to experience some indispensable "risks" in life. Such children lack independent consciousness, and once they leave their parents, they don't know how to face the difficulties and setbacks in life.
3, simple and rude is not desirable
Contrary to special care and overprotection, some parents educate their children in a simple and rude way, always beating and cursing, which makes their children live in fear all day, and their personality development is seriously inhibited, forming such bad qualities as timidity, withdrawn, stubbornness and self-distrust. Avoiding parents for fear of punishment, unwilling to go home and looking for "warmth" outside are easy to be dragged down by bad guys and embark on the road of crime. Therefore, parents should educate their children not to be simple and rude, but to pay attention to correct guidance.
4. intergenerational education and parents' education for their children should be unified.
Two generations often have different understandings of educating children. For example, the younger generation pays more attention to children's intellectual cultivation and personality development, while grandparents pay more attention to the education of morality and hard-working spirit (although grandparents have the habit of doting on their grandchildren), which requires two generations to communicate with each other, unify their understanding and choose good teaching. We should also be careful not to expose educational differences in front of children and safeguard parents' prestige. Parents of grandparents should pay attention to accept new ideas, learn new knowledge and try their best to raise and educate their children with modern scientific knowledge. Two generations negotiate to establish necessary and feasible family rules, and at the same time give children some freedom and independence. Grandparents should control their feelings with reason, distinguish between love and doting, and love should be moderate. Correct love is conducive to the healthy growth of children. We should also actively create opportunities for children to have more contact with their parents and dredge their feelings. Two generations should work together to create a harmonious and warm family atmosphere conducive to family education. Young parents should first have a correct attitude, no matter how busy they are, they should take time to spend with their children, and don't leave the education and custody of their children entirely to grandparents-this is irresponsible for their children. As children's parents and grandparents' parents' children, we should always communicate with grandparents' parents. Only two generations have a unified understanding and clear goals.
Keep up with the pace, children's education will be successful, and children will move from a happy family to a colorful world.
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