3. If the people the child knows are very quality and educated, naturally the child will be very quality and educated by his friends. On the other hand, children with uneducated people will also be led astray, and they will learn hard and then break down.
The wicked are not born wicked, and the wicked need to be led by the wicked. Since ancient times, there has been a saying that "evil horses ride evil horses, and rouge horses meet Guan Gong". The wicked are also afraid of others. The wicked bully the weak and fear the hard, and there is no room for evil in the current legal society.
Family inheritance is related to family education and has a good family style. Children from bad families will not be evil, children from bad families will not be good, parents are evil, and children from bad families will not be good. Some parents divorce regardless of their children, and children can't teach well. If they follow irresponsible people, good children will become bad people and villains. There are many good people and few bad people in the world. Let's not be villains, but a family of five.
A big family makes a bad man! We have seven brothers, two daughters and nine sisters. That cow, its father is a bandit, its mother is an evil woman, and it gave birth to a son who was burned, robbed, cheated, cheated and beaten ... Even the brothers fought, and even their mother scolded him so badly that he was not as good as the old buffalo and raised so many bastards ... This made the neighbors laugh. But it is very United with the outside world, playing all over the neighborhood and becoming a demon that everyone can't hide. ...
"What kind of family will produce villains?" This problem should be the impolite behavior of family members, who often make trouble unreasonably, dominate the market, speak rudely, pay no attention to etiquette and morality, and secretly frame and slander others. Such a family is most prone to evil people.
A family is first taught by parents? Parents are kind and have positive energy. After children enter life, they will certainly assume social responsibilities and obligations, although it is not brilliant. People want to see each other's parents? Parents worry about cheating others all day, so their children will be even worse. But the end result of the wicked is to be looked down upon. Because no one in the world is stupid
As the saying goes, "fish begins to stink at the head", the wicked are not born wicked, but gradually become wicked due to the influence of bad environment and the hint of bad education. Generally, wicked people have moral problems. For example, families with domestic violence will tell their children that it is ok to hit others. Parents always bully others and cheat others, telling their children that it is right to do so. If parents are not filial, they cannot be more filial to their children. There are also many people whose parents are extremely kind. For example, parents are often bullied by others, and children will do evil by hook or by crook to make themselves strong. Many parents spoil their children too much, which will make them extremely selfish, do whatever they want, think they can do anything, and it is easy to become villains when they grow up. Not everyone likes to be a villain, and there is another villain who has to do it, such as being forced by poverty and confused by hatred and unable to survive. Human nature is complex, and a person's becoming a villain is influenced by various aspects, but the most critical reason is that he has not established a correct moral concept.
As the saying goes, like father, like son, fish begins to stink at the head has come into contact with many families. Parents have a bad temper and like to call names and hit people, and the relationship between husband and wife is not good. When children grow up in such a family, their personalities will become eccentric, sensitive, suspicious, irritable and paranoid. Easy to be a villain.
Neither of the two children in the family is kind or even evil. Older people will pretend to be "nice" to outsiders because they leave their good temper to outsiders. The serious partiality of parents to their youngest son from childhood didn't change until they got married and got married separately when they were older. The eldest son won the attention of his parents by being "clever and sensible", but the more clever the child is, the less attention and care he gets from his parents. So he became dark and selfish, suppressed for a long time and vented the anger of his parents and outsiders on his wife and children, calculating, attacking them with words and even physically. The youngest son was in trouble since he was a child, selfish and vicious, angered his parents, broke off relations with his brother for money, and conspired with his wife to cheat his father's money. Is it possible that the parents who gave birth to these two sons have their own shortcomings and sins, and others say that their parents are kind? The so-called words and deeds, harmonious and warm family atmosphere, can raise normal and kind children. Neither of the two children is normal. Are parents really kind, or pseudo-kind (or evil at all)? Is the family really as harmonious as outsiders see it?
It is an indisputable fact that the birth of a child changes with the change of family. Dragons give birth to dragons, wind gives birth to wind, and rats make holes. The descendants of scholarly family are not much different. I remember a famous man named Jin Shengtan in Qing Dynasty. His ancestors made a living by slaughtering. The ninth generation was slaughtered, and the tenth generation produced a strong Yuan. His grandmother told him not to go into the ancestral grave of the Kim family after his death. As a result, Jin Shengtan broke the law and was killed by ten families, even the master. The lack of virtue in ancestors will affect future generations. As the saying goes, if there is a good family, there must be Qing Yu.
The answer to this question is very broad. First, we need to know what a villain is. In different social environments, there are different definitions of villains. For example, cannibalism is a heinous crime now, but in ancient times, especially in wartime barracks, cannibalism was normal, so according to my understanding, villains just did not meet the legal and moral standards of their social environment, and deviated from this standard in thought and behavior, thus causing certain adverse social impact.
So, what kind of family will produce villains?
First, the appearance of the wicked is not the unilateral influence of the family, although it accounts for a large proportion. According to the rules of genetics, the appearance of villains is related to the genes of immediate family members, that is, if there are villains in recent generations, the descendants must be villains, but to different degrees. Of course, this concept has not been widely recognized in the current society.
Second, the appearance of the wicked is related to the environment, which is not limited to the family environment, including the school and social environment. This is a very broad concept. In short, the environment shapes people. If the environment is good and people are guided to be positive, the probability of the wicked will be much smaller and the probability of the wicked will be greater. This concept emphasizes the role of environment, but ignores the influence of genes on people, which is recognized by people in a certain range.
Third, finally, the interaction between environment and heredity affects people's growth, which is also the most widely accepted concept. European and American educators have done experiments and found 10 college students to simulate prison operation, thus demonstrating the influence of environment and heredity on people. Two of them are prison administrators, A is well educated and has a good personality, B has a criminal family history and a violent personality, and the other eight are criminals, namely qwerty with a normal family and ui with a criminal family history. The whole experiment completely simulated the operation of a real prison. At first, the experiment was very harmonious, but with the distribution of food, criminals breaking the rules, prison administrators overusing punishment and many other conflicts, the experimental atmosphere became more and more tense. The most obvious change is that the education administrator B becomes violent and even excessively punishes criminals, while the criminal ui tries to resist and escape from prison. With the escalation of contradictions and conflicts, researchers have to stop the experiment to avoid more serious accidents. Finally, it is concluded that genetic genes and environment jointly affect human growth.
To sum up, back to the question, what kind of family will have villains? The more appropriate answer is that the family has a criminal history, and the family environment is poor, and the children have not been given a beautiful and harmonious family life. For example, in single-parent families, it is easy to get lost in the cultivation of children's character because of the lack of care from one party. Children involved in the lack of fatherly love generally grow up towards their mothers, weak and gentle; Families with a criminal history will also bring a series of social problems to their children. Some families with criminal history will make their children suffer a lot of unfair treatment in society, but the family has not given reasonable guidance. The disharmony of family relations means that parents often have conflicts, like to educate their children about violence, etc., and do not give them a harmonious family environment ... In short, the appearance of the wicked is not only the unilateral influence of the family, but also inseparable from the social environment and heredity.