Venus's son was laughed at by his classmates. Your mother is a man, and the child is domineering.
As we all know, the life story of Venus is legendary. She used to be an internationally famous dancer, and later she was often active on the big screen. Her program "The Venus Show" has attracted much attention. Venus is a transsexual person, and almost everyone knows it. However, this did not affect her normal life. She not only has a happy family, but also adopts three children.
In the "Venus Show" program, Venus said that one day when she came home from school, her adopted son was unhappy and began to ask questions, unwilling to answer them. After the patient guidance of Venus, the adopted son told the truth. The reason is that at school, some students openly ridiculed his mother and said? Did you know that your mother is a transsexual? ?
Most people must be very angry when they hear this, but Venus calmly asked the child what to say, and the adopted son told Venus that he would reply directly to those who mocked him? So what? What does it have to do with you?
She will always be my mother? Tell Venus? Don't be afraid of other people's eyes, how to live is up to you. . Venus was very happy to hear the child's supercilious and confident answer.
Everyone knows that Venus is very famous in the entertainment circle. Poisonous tongue? It is famous that no matter which star is discovered by Venus, it will be spit out in Venus Show, and in other programs, Venus sometimes returns to others impolitely. Like mother, like daughter, for children as young as 8 years old, they can have strong confidence to repay others, which is inseparable from the usual education of Venus.
In our life, similar examples emerge one after another. Many parents teach their children to make peace, preferring to suffer some losses rather than show off quickly. But the education of Venus deserves our deep thought.
When children are excluded and ridiculed at school, blindly accepting them will acquiesce in the development of the situation and will only aggravate it. Otherwise, there wouldn't be so many incidents of school violence and bullying.
Cultivate children
1, teach children how to think correctly.
To teach children to solve problems, parents must first know how to think, so in daily life, parents can't deprive their children of the right to choose and decide.
For example, when children rob other people's toys, parents can't directly tell their children that this is wrong, but should ask leading questions? How would you feel if it were you? When the child personally feels that this is wrong, ask questions again? What should I do after that? What are we going to do now? Is that all problems should be in the hands of children.
2. Teach children to solve problems by themselves
When children encounter difficulties, don't rush to help them solve them, but let them find their own ways and try their best to judge whether things are right or wrong, which will play a positive role in solving problems in the future.
3. Teach children to find more solutions.
Parents should guide their children and let them know that there are often more than one way to solve problems, and there are more choices. In the process of solving problems, we should compare the results, so that children can think for themselves and choose for themselves.
4. Teach children to consider the consequences of their actions.
This is the most critical step. Children must learn to consider the consequences of their actions and be responsible for the consequences. In this way, children will not be impulsive when dealing with problems, and will think about solutions more rationally.
Parents are the cornerstone of children's behavior, and family education is particularly important for cultivating a child with high emotional intelligence. It is necessary to train children to treat others with empathy, learn to put themselves in others' shoes and think from others' perspective. Such a child must have a high emotional intelligence and get a different life.