On weekends, my mother began to clean up early in the morning. When Lei Lei got up, she saw her mother mopping the floor and ran to help her. At first, her mother didn't agree, and she couldn't bear to cry, so she gave her the mop. As a result, in a short time, the place where her mother dragged became dirty again. Lei Lei just dragged it there to play, whether it was dirty or not.
When mom saw the trouble, she wanted to mop herself with a mop, but Lei refused, so she had to be taught how to mop the floor. Later, Lei Lei really did what her mother taught her. Although the floor was not very clean in the end, it was just so-so.
The growth of children is a process of continuous learning, and mistakes are often made in the process of learning. It is this kind of "trial and error" and "correction" that constantly improves children's learning ability and life ability. Therefore, allowing children to "try and make mistakes" is very helpful for their growth.
1. What are the benefits of "trial and error" for children's growth?
1. Let children accumulate life experience.
. At school, the teacher will ask us to prepare a wrong book, let us collect all the wrong questions, and then review them constantly, so that there will be no mistakes in the end. The process of "trial and error" is a process of experience accumulation. Constantly change the mistakes in your child's life and leave the correct answers. There will be fewer and fewer setbacks in their growth, and they will become better and better.
2. Can make children strong
. In a child's life, he will experience all kinds of tests and challenges. As long as they can continue to stand up after setbacks.
Chenchen liked to pile wood when he was young. At first, the blocks he built were always thrown away. He cried and scattered them everywhere, and said angrily, "What's wrong with this building block? Always bad. " At this time, my father will say: Never mind, son, do it again, I believe you can do it well. "In dad's encouraging eyes, Chen Chen picked up the fallen building blocks again and reassembled them. Later, he can slowly build houses of different shapes according to his own preferences. His temper is not that bad.
It can be seen that no one is born omnipotent, and only through trial and error can children become smart and strong.
3. Can cultivate children's self-confidence
. If the child does something wrong, the parents will loudly accuse him, which will make the child afraid to take action when doing things. On the contrary, if parents encourage their children to "try and make mistakes", they will be carefree and have the courage to explore. Just like the soldiers fighting in front, if there is a fire in the backyard, they will be swayed by considerations of gain and loss and their morale will be unstable. Only with effective logistics can they be in an invincible position. Therefore, allowing children to "try and make mistakes" will make them more confident.
Knowing that children learn to "try and make mistakes" has so many benefits, parents should pay attention to guiding their children to try and make mistakes more.