A famous salesman gave a farewell speech in the biggest gymnasium in this city.

On that day, the venue was packed and people were waiting for it.

A wonderful speech by a great salesman. The curtain slowly opened and a huge iron ball hung in the center of the stage.

The host said to the audience, "Please invite two strongmen to take the stage." In a blink of an eye, two fast-moving young people ran to the stage.

Then the salesman spoke: "Please use this sledgehammer to beat the hanging iron ball until it swings."

A young man first picked up a hammer, posed, swung a sledgehammer and threw it at the hanging iron ball with all his strength. But after a deafening noise, the iron ball did not move. Then he continued to hit it with a sledgehammer, but the iron ball did not move. Soon he was panting. The other man, not showing weakness, picked up a sledgehammer and jingled, but the iron ball remained motionless.

At this time, the old man took out a small hammer from his coat pocket, knocked on the iron ball, paused, and then knocked with the small hammer. People watched curiously, and the old man kept knocking. 10 minutes have passed, 20 minutes have passed, and the venue has already begun to stir. Some people simply yell and scold, and people use all kinds of voices and voices.

The old man didn't care, but continued to work with a small hammer. After the old man continued talking for about 40 minutes, a lady sitting in front suddenly screamed, "The ball has moved!" " "Then, in the old man's hammering, the hanging ball swings higher and higher. It pulled the iron shelf with a "moo", and its great power strongly shocked everyone present.

The old man spoke. His farewell speech was only one sentence: "On the road of life, if you don't have the patience to wait for success, then you have to spend your whole life patiently facing failure."

Don't put smelly cards on the platform of the mind.

A bad day begins with shoelaces.

A colleague told me about his unlucky day. He just went downstairs early in the morning to do business when his shoelaces suddenly changed.

Suddenly an idea came to me: "What will happen in the early morning?" Thinking while walking, he walked to the front of the bus, got on the bus, stepped on the pedal and fell on the mud. He was very depressed. Is this a bad day? The idea haunted his mind, which made him very nervous. When he got to the office, he was still a little confused. He felt he had to do something, but he couldn't remember. Near noon, the boss came in and asked him, "Did you make the document that was explained yesterday afternoon?" He didn't remember until he was speechless. The boss was in a hurry and scolded him, making him cry in his eyes and his mood completely ruined. When he went to the canteen to eat at noon, a fly came to bully him, and he suddenly lost his appetite. In a rage, he poured a bowl of rice into the pot. In the afternoon, he was hungry. I feel something jump straight out, but I can't jump out. When I came home from work, I saw my lover on the phone, and my tone was particularly gentle. At this moment, the thing in his heart finally jumped up. He went over and slapped his lover. This slap ignited the fuse of the war at home, which made the chicken fly and the dog jump and turned it upside down. Only afterwards did he know that his wife was calling her mother, which was not what he guessed.

He said, "A broken shoelace gave me bad luck all day."

What does shoelaces have to do with a bad day? What is the relationship between stepping on an empty pedal and shoelaces? What is the relationship between being criticized by leaders and shoelaces? What is the relationship between flies in vegetable soup and shoelaces? I lost my mobile phone and quarreled with my lover. He thought his shoelaces were broken. He further thought that if he was scolded by the leader, would he leave a bad impression? If the impression is not good, will the bright future disappear? Had a quarrel with my lover, did you sow the seeds of hatred? He linked this day with his life.

Shoelaces are not necessarily related to a bad day. All these unpleasant things have nothing to do with the weather, the days, or even thieves and lovers. What's the matter?

What brings all these unfortunate things together? It's heart, it's emotion, it's out of control psychology.

We all remember the stories of Liu, Guan and Zhang in The Romance of the Three Kingdoms. Liu Bei, Guan Yu and Zhang Fei became sworn brothers in Taoyuan. Qi Xin worked hard to start a business together. From being a sponsor to spreading a large area of land, my career is booming. However, when did this great achievement begin to show defeat? Since Guan Yu left Maicheng. Guan Yu lost Jingzhou and was beheaded by Wu. Since then, Zhang Fei was assassinated by his subordinates. Then, Liu Bei failed in Baidicheng and died of illness. Is this series of "unlucky things" arranged by God? Has the promise of Taoyuan Sanjieyi been fulfilled? No. What is it? It's heart, it's emotion, it's out of control psychology. Zhang Fei was anxious to avenge Guan Yu and was in a bad mood. He was whipped to vent his emotions, which led to his murder. Liu Bei, who lost his mind, forgot the great sense of justice, ignored the hard persuasion of Kong Ming and others, and insisted on cutting Wu, which led to a fiasco. Guan Yu's trip to Maicheng is to tie the shoelaces of Shu!

If the shoelace is broken, there will be a fall on the bus, a bad job, and a quarrel with my wife; Guan Yu died, Zhang Fei was killed and Liu Bei died. One thing after another, failed again and again. Who knocked down the dominoes?

A shoelace makes one day "unlucky" and one failure, will you make your life "unlucky"? If the shoelace is broken, don't take it to heart, don't take it to heart. It may be a stinking card. Once it is placed on the platform of the mind, it will become a domino in the first place.

Enlightenment from the son of the fishing king

There was a fisherman who was honored as "the king of fishing" because of his first-class fishing skills. When he was old, the "king of fishing" was very upset because his three sons had poor fishing skills. So he often tells people his troubles: "I really don't understand that my fishing skills are so good, but my sons are so pitiful!" From the time they were sensible, I taught them fishing skills, starting with the most basic things, telling them how to weave a net to catch fish most easily, how to row a boat without disturbing fish most, and how to put' fish' in the urn most easily. When they grow up, I have taught them how to know the tides and distinguish the seasons of fish. I have taught them all the experience I have worked so hard to sum up over the years, but their fishing skills can't keep up with those skills.

A passerby heard his story and asked, "Have you been teaching them by hand?"

"Yes, in order to get first-class fishing skills, I taught them carefully and patiently."

"Have they been following you?"

"Yes, I always let them follow me in order to make them avoid detours."

Passers-by said, "in this way, your mistake is obvious." You only taught them skills, not lessons. For everyone, no class is the same as no experience. "

Only by learning to reflect and rise in failure can we really learn skills. Claude, British novelist and playwright? Smith once said, "For us, the greatest honor is that everyone has failed, and we can get up every time we fall."

You know, it is because of constant suffering that people can become stronger. Sometimes people learn more from the lessons of failure than from the experiences of success. No matter what kind of failure, as long as you get up after falling, the lessons of falling will become useful experiences and help you achieve future success.

Remember, failure doesn't mean failure forever, and success doesn't mean success forever. A lot of times, too smooth will often become a subtraction problem, subtracting your ambition, struggle, physique and ability a little bit. However, the necessary setbacks become addition problems, your dreams, experiences and lessons are constantly added and accumulated, and you have a successful hand.

Misunderstanding:

Early in Alaska, a young couple got married and had children. His wife died in childbirth, leaving a child.

He is busy living and looking after the house. He trained a dog because no one helped to look after the children. Dogs are smart and obedient, can take care of children, can bite bottles to feed children and can raise children.

One day, the master went out and asked him to take care of the children.

He went to another country and couldn't come back that day because of the heavy snow. When he got home the next day, the dog immediately heard the sound and came out to meet his master. He opened the door and looked up. There is blood everywhere, and there is blood on the bed. The child is gone, the dog is around, and his mouth is full of blood. The owner found this situation and thought that the dog sexually assaulted and ate the child. In great anger, he picked up a knife and chopped it at the dog's head.

Then I suddenly heard the child's voice, saw him climb out from under the bed and picked him up. Although he had blood on him, he was not hurt.

He's weird. I don't know what's going on. Look at the dog's body. There is no meat on his leg. There is a wolf next to him, still biting dog meat in his mouth. The dog saved the young master, but was killed by mistake. This is really the most amazing misunderstanding in the world.

Note: Misunderstandings often occur when people are ignorant, irrational, impatient, lack of thinking, unable to understand each other in many ways, self-reflective and extremely impulsive.

At the beginning of misunderstanding, I always only think about each other's mistakes; So the misunderstanding will get deeper and deeper and get out of hand. If people misunderstand ignorant animals and puppies, it will have such terrible and serious consequences. If there is misunderstanding between people, the consequences will be even more unimaginable.

Nails:

There was a boy with a bad temper, so his father gave him a bag of nails. And told him that whenever he lost his temper, he would nail a nail on the fence in the backyard.

On the first day, the boy nailed 37 nails. Slowly, the number of nails hammered every day decreases. He found it easier to control his temper than to nail it.

Finally, one day, the boy will never lose patience and lose his temper again. He told his father about it, and his father told him that from now on, as long as he could control his temper, he would pull out a nail.

Day by day passed, and finally the boy told his father that he had finally pulled out all the nails.

My father took him by the hand and came to the backyard, saying, You have done well, my good boy. But look at those holes in the fence. These fences will never go back. What you say when you are angry will leave a scar like these nails. If you stab someone with a knife, no matter how many times you say you're sorry, the wound will last forever. The pain of words is as unbearable as the real pain.

Note: People often get hurt forever because they can't let go of each other's persistence. If we can all start from ourselves and start to be tolerant of others, I believe you (you) will receive many unexpected effects. Opening a window for others is to let yourself see a more complete sky.

Two balls

A young man entered a new company and the boss only gave him a simple job. He felt that just showing his talents was not enough, so he asked for more work.

The boss said, "I'll give you an analogy." If I throw you a ball, you can certainly catch it easily. When you hold the ball firmly and throw it to you for the second time, you will surely catch it. But if I throw you two balls at the same time, you can't catch all the balls safely. I'm afraid you won't catch any. You also want to have two balls in your hand. Why do we have to catch them together? So when you do one thing, you can do two things at the same time, but don't want to get it at the same time and start at the same time. You must hold one of them steady before you pick up the other, so as not to be in a hurry and fail. "

Doing things like this, so is studying. One time I concentrate on a certain course, and the other time I concentrate on playing. This is called learning and entertainment.