1) Learn to accept children.
Mothers can control their anxiety and try not to remind their children for a week, such as "Listen carefully in class, don't talk, don't be naughty". When the child is at home, pay more attention to observation, find the advantages of the child as much as possible, and find a little progress of the child every day, even the most insignificant. After discovering the advantages of your child, don't be stingy with praise, but be sure to tell it to your child.
2) Communicate with children more.
When the child comes home from school, the mother can talk to the child about what happened at school. As an active listener, mothers should show interest in their children's topics, guide their children to express their views more, and have more "why" and "what do you think", instead of rushing to persuade and educate their children before they finish talking. On the one hand, it can enhance the affection between mother and child, on the other hand, it can make mother know more about children's thoughts and find out the real reason of children's speech disturbance in class, so as to carry out targeted education and guidance.
3) Cultivate children's good study habits.
Create a quiet environment for children and let them concentrate on learning games at home. Usually, mothers can read books, tell stories, draw pictures and play intellectual games with their children when they are free. Don't interfere with a child doing what he likes when he is absorbed in doing things alone.
4) Let children take part in more sports.
High-rise buildings in the city deprive children of the opportunity to get in touch with green space, so that children can't get enough exercise, their brains can't get the corresponding sensory information stimulation, and they are stunted, so there will be symptoms such as lack of attention, excessive movements and poor self-control ability. Therefore, parents can let their children participate in some physical exercises and playful activities in a planned way, and have the opportunity to take their children to nature more, so that their bodies and minds can be released and their knowledge can be increased.
5) punish children with natural consequences
When children make mistakes, they don't need too much criticism, and let them bear the consequences of their own mistakes or mistakes. For young children, parents can also tell them specific ways to correct their mistakes and guide them to make up for them themselves. For example, if milk is spilled, you can't drink milk. At the same time, children need to clean the milk on the table by themselves.
This will not only make children understand what their mistakes may lead to, but also make children feel contrite in the process of bearing the consequences, which is conducive to preventing children from making similar mistakes again.
6) Punish children in an indirect way
If the child's fault is not serious, parents can let the child remember this lesson by indirect punishment means and methods such as winking at the child, restricting his actions, detaining his favorite things, and limiting his entertainment time. For example, if the toys are not packed, the time for watching cartoons will be cancelled.