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Family education is very important for babies, and parents are their first teachers. It plays a decisive role in the baby's life. The generation gap in age can easily lead to contradictions, and good communication is an effective way to solve these problems. In this process, both sides can open their hearts, which can not only solve contradictions, but also enhance their feelings. Play together. Every child likes to play. As parents, we should know how to use this opportunity to get in touch with our children, and we can also have common goals and common language in the process of playing.

This can also make the family atmosphere more harmonious. In fact, every child wants to be affirmed by his parents. They are most afraid that their parents will compare those excellent children with themselves, and they will feel poor and even feel inferior. No matter how big the gap between children and others is, we should also know how to tap the precious things in children and then give them affirmation. Parents should know how to apologize when they make mistakes. Some parents are always condescending and think that they are right about everything, but they are not.

You find yourself making mistakes in educating your children, and you are always unwilling to bow down and apologize to your children for the so-called prestige. Apologizing to your child is not a shameful thing, but it can win your child's favor. Fifth, forgiveness is greater love. Every child always makes mistakes, but if parents are too strict and don't know how to forgive children, children will naturally feel alienated from their parents. If you love children, please understand how to give them tolerance and forgiveness. At present, most parents pay too much attention to their children's IQ development and neglect their children's EQ development.

In fact, early EQ education is particularly important, which is a kind of psychological shaping. The development of infants' early emotional intelligence is closely related to their parents' parenting style, which in turn is related to how parents correctly identify their children's temperament. Only by correctly establishing parent-child attachment relationship can we correctly identify children's temperament. When children reach the age of four or five, their brain capacity will increase to two-thirds of that of adults, and precise evolution is the fastest stage in their lives. The most important learning ability, especially emotional learning ability, has also been the greatest development in this period.