How to educate little girls about sex?
Directory: 1. What sexual knowledge does the little girl need to know II. How to specifically educate little girls 3. Answers to several common questions about sex education. Some ideas that little girls should develop. Several methods in sex education introduce what little girls need to know about sex 1. Information that children should be informed about the human body and human growth: (1) body parts and their functions; (2) body and gender differences; (3) keeping the body clean; (4) cultivating children's ability to master the differences between themselves and others; (1) naming body parts; (2) personal cleaning (cleaning body parts); and (3) recognizing the body. Self-esteem and self-love (2) Respect for differences (3) Evaluation of one's own body (4) Positive evaluation of happiness, intimacy and trust derived from physical experience (5) Respect for gender equality. Information about fertility and reproduction that should be told to children: (1) pregnancy, fertility and babies (2) basic information about human reproduction (where babies come from) (3) various ways to become family members (such as adoption) (4) Not everyone gives birth to babies to cultivate their mastery: use accurate words to help children develop their attitude when discussing these topics with children: express their acceptance of various ways to become family members. 3. Sexual cognition should inform children of information: (1) Touch. Babies *** (2) explore their own bodies and genitals; (3) The pleasure brought by physical contact is a part of people's life, which is normal; (4) Gentle physical contact is a way to express love and affection, which can cultivate children's mastery ability; (1) Know something about gender identity; (2) Express your comfortable and uncomfortable feelings; (3) Express your needs. For example, in the scene of seeing a doctor, You can freely express your attitude to help your child develop: (1) positive cognition of all body functions = positive body image (2) respect for others (3) curiosity about yourself and others' bodies (4) information that values and norms should tell your child: (1) social rules and cultural norms/values (2) gender roles (3) between different people. Influence of age on gender and behavior of different age groups (5) Norms about nudity cultivate children's ability to master: (1) Distinguish between private space and public behavior (2) Respect social rules and cultural norms (3) Make corresponding correct behaviors according to the situation (4) Know where to go. In order to help children develop an attitude: (1) respect themselves and others' bodies; (2) accept social rules about privacy and intimate behavior; (3) respect others' "no" and "good"; (5) information that children should be informed about sex and rights; (1) the right to safety and protection; (2) adults have the responsibility to ensure children's safety. (3) expressing needs and desires; (4) Distinguish between "good secrets" and "bad secrets" to help children develop an attitude; (1) Knowing rights brings people confidence. How to give the little girl specific educational knowledge 1, Serena is a little girl who lives in Mr. Brown's body and has 300 million friends. The day of swimming competition is drawing near. Serena practices hard every day ... she knows that she has to swim fast to win the prize-a beautiful egg. The game is over, and something amazing has happened! Where did Serena end up? Quickly open this interesting, warm and lovely picture book and have a look together ... 2. The story of penis. Are you a boy or a girl? How do you know you are a boy? What's the difference between boys and girls? ..... It is easy for children to find their bodies different from those of their parents in family life, and it is also easy to find their bodies different from those of children of the opposite sex in daily life. Face up to children's sex education and tell them the origin of life with gentle pictures and gentle language. The story of penis contains rich contents, such as the difference of physiological structure between men and women, the birth of life, the cleanliness of genitals, and protection from sexual assault, which expresses that "every child is a precious life!" Good feeling. 3. The Story of * * * Has your child ever been curious about his mother's * *? Does he (she) sometimes want to touch his mother's * * *, or ask, "Why are mom's breasts bigger than dad's?" "Is there any milk in Mom's * *?" Questions like this make you feel embarrassed and don't know how to deal with them. In fact, children around the age of 3 have already observed the difference in body structure between men and women. Girls in this period have begun to use * * * as a female body mark, and combine this mark with their own gender. Boys at this stage are often interested in their mothers' sexuality. When a mother encounters such a situation, she can naturally and calmly tell her children what she wants to know. When children know the truth about * * *, they are no longer curious and will shift their interest to other things. If they are not satisfied, their curiosity about * * * will continue. When you want to have a moderate communication with your child, but you find it difficult to express it, a warm picture book of children's sex education like the story of * * * can satisfy your child's curiosity and help you communicate with your child better. Answers to several common questions about sex education ①? where i was from? Experts suggest grasping the three principles of answering 1 Ask and answer, the answer is simple and direct, as long as the child can understand the meaning. If the child does not continue to ask questions, parents should not continue to explain deeper knowledge. 3. Don't use adult words such as "* * *" and "yo yo" to explain the process of * * * entering the mother. Children are curious about sex organs and even play with their own. What should they do? If he plays with the sex organs, share with him: "It feels comfortable and everyone will do it." Instead, I will not worry blindly, nor will I regard it as a sin. It is normal for children under six to touch their sexual organs. The reason may be boredom or pleasure. At this time, parents don't need to make a fuss or stop it. Ignoring this behavior or playing games with him to divert attention is a better way, and behavior will decrease with age. However, when there are important events at home, parents are not harmonious, abused by adults, stressed and nervous, children will also play with sex organs frequently. To improve behavior, it is necessary to eliminate stressors for children. If this behavior happens in public, it may be necessary to think about whether that occasion is completely unsuitable for children. He wants to attract the attention of adults because he is bored. Don't lecture him at this time, take the children out for a walk, or think of an interesting game to divert attention. If you are over six years old and frequently touch sexual organs, you need to seek professional advice. ③ When children see pictures of animals mating, ask them what they are doing. Tell the children, "They are mating." Mating is to breed the next generation, which can be found in both animals and plants. If the child is very interested, you might as well look up information, read books with him and study how biology breeds the next generation. Experts remind that parents don't need to know all the knowledge, the key is to be able to keep an open mind and enthusiasm for learning and exploring with their children. (4) When a child peeks at pornography or * * *? For the first time, I found the children in the door secretly watching * * * or pornography. Parents are always anxious: "Should I ban him?" Or pretend not to know? "For teenagers and children, curiosity and demand for sex are normal. Experts suggest that you don't have to scold or restrain your child because you are nervous, and don't be shy and blush; The best way to deal with it is to take it as a good opportunity for sex education, discuss irrational sexual knowledge in pornography with children, and further discuss what is a happy and healthy sexual relationship model. If the child is not ready to discuss this matter, as long as there is nothing unusual in his life and interpersonal friendship, parents can regard it as one of the ways for the child to vent his needs without talking about it. Experts say that pornography is like junk food, which may be delicious and fun, but unhealthy, and may also make children misunderstand healthy and beautiful sexual relations. Parents are the only people who can explain and educate, but if it is really difficult to talk about it, provide a correct book about sex for your child, at least don't let him learn "sex" through a single channel. A more active approach is to talk about sex with children through some popular and interesting movies or books. Dr. Li Weiwen once talked with his daughter about the physiological period, premarital sex and unmarried pregnancy in the movie "Being Pregnant". Some ideas that little girls should develop 1. Don't touch many of my textbooks on sexual protection education for children in American families and schools. Through the cases of child sexual assault, the book teaches children which hidden parts of the body are not allowed to be touched at will, and how to deal with such things as sexual assault. 2. Don't kiss me casually. Through the eyes of a little girl, I expressed my child's unwillingness to be forced to be close to others. This book not only teaches children to express their views bravely and protect themselves, but also tells adults a truth: expressing love for children in a way that children can accept is the only way to truly love children! 3. Don't just walk with strangers. If a stranger wants to take you away, will you wisely refuse him? Although it is a topic that everyone often talks about, some ways to deal with the crisis introduced in it are what children really need and can give them a lot of help. 4. Never keep a secret. Know what "private parts of the body" are. When someone touches it in an improper way, be sure to speak up. Learn to protect yourself and let children know that some secrets must be told. Introduction to several methods of sex education 1. It is fun to teach children by looking at pictures, and they are interested in things with patterns. Parents may wish to make good use of their children's psychological characteristics to teach. When telling children fairy tales, ask small questions and then explain the knowledge to them. Isn't this a good educational method? I believe this method will soon arouse children's curiosity. After all, children love to ask why everything when they are young, so they might as well take the opportunity to teach. 2. Instill sexual knowledge in play. When there are problems between children and friends and want to ask you for advice, you can take the opportunity to tell him the reasons and the corresponding sexual knowledge. For example, when your child asks you why your neighbor's little sister can't go to the ladies' room by herself, you can tell your child the gender difference. 3. Throughout daily life, because sex education in China is still a rare course in school, parents should pay attention to strengthening sex education for their children, and use family life to tell their children some related knowledge, such as telling their children what their reproductive organs are called when taking a shower. 4. Friends-style conversation Parents should give full consideration to their children's psychology when conducting sex education for their children. They don't like the education method of serious preaching. Parents can communicate with their children through dialogue with friends, which is more acceptable to children. 5. Smile at sexual problems Parents should grasp their children's first sexual problems, which has a very important impact on their future views on sex. For sexual questions, parents should smile and answer positively. If there is a question that is difficult to answer at the moment, tell the child the correct answer as soon as possible after consulting the information, and get in touch with the child's sexual curiosity and ambiguity.