Xunzi, a great educator in ancient times, has three central ideas in "Encouraging Learning".

Can't learn.

A heart.

Actors are also difficult to learn.

What do you mean? It is Xunzi who thinks that the correct learning direction is to cultivate one's morality, maintain all qualities, specialize in a skill and develop it into an attribute, and then persevere. (You know).

Do a good job in the beginning and end, don't give up halfway, in order to achieve a completely pure spiritual realm. On the other hand.

Children say they are confused about learning. What should parents do?

Have we told this truth to our children?

The child worked hard for a long time, but there was no result. He felt sick and wanted to give up. Is there really no result?

There is a saying that quantitative change will cause qualitative change. Therefore, when children don't want to study with negative emotions, they must actively provide psychological guidance.

For children: your efforts are not without results, but you may not see the results in the process of accumulation. We can see the result when the quality changes. You have to believe that every time we pay, it is cumulative. Stick to it for a while, and you will see a qualitative change. David Ashe, North Executive Force. )

Learning doesn't happen overnight, so you can't worry.

Think about it, when we are hungry, we will feel less hungry after only one bite, but we still don't have enough to eat. We will continue to eat, bite by bite, and gradually feel full. It is a kind of food.

Learning is like eating. You should eat rice bit by bit, not fat bit by bit! Learn a little knowledge, don't worry about eating, you will choke when you are in a hurry, and you will be full when you eat to a certain extent.

Don't worry about studying. Learning to a certain extent will naturally improve your grades.

2. Action guidance: Help children set clear goals.

I remember when I was in college, I was very confused and had no goal.

I threw this question to a professor, and the professor's answer was to do a good job in front of me and keep a positive attitude.

I think this sentence has a deep influence on me.

Life is like crossing a sand dune in the desert. The process of a dune and a dune. (Life).

Before climbing the sand dune in front of you, it will block your view, and you can't see your back or the future scenery. On the other hand.

Therefore, it is the most important thing to set goals when children are confused, do all the work at present, and take every small step in a down-to-earth manner.