What harm can parents do when they beat their children with violence?

Personally, I strongly disapprove of this kind of education, which will do harm to children both mentally and physically.

Physically, after being violently whipped, the child is undoubtedly injured in the flesh, but in the internal organs and bones, which is extremely unfavorable for the healthy growth of the child.

Internally: First, it will make the child feel that his parents don't love him, and his later performance will also be that he doesn't love others, his parents and society, and his life is no longer warm; Second, after being beaten, it will definitely leave scars on the body, which is easy to be noticed by others and laughed at by classmates, making it easier for children to feel inferior; Third, children's strength is still relatively small. Faced with the whipping of their parents, they have to choose to suppress and endure. In the long run, they will be unwilling to talk and become indifferent. When one day, when he grows up and has enough strength, he will definitely show it in the same way. Fourth, children will become impulsive and think that hitting people is a way to deal with problems. When he has his own family, he may also handle family relations in this way.

The whip that is lifted is usually the most terrible, and there is no strength to really fight. In the face of a child's mistakes, parents may think that he will change after being scared for the first time, but when you are ready to hit him for the second time, you will find that he has calmed down a lot because he knows that he can bear the pain of being beaten. Over time, children become more and more difficult to manage. Parents will complain that their children are becoming more and more disobedient and rebellious. In fact, as parents, we should also consider from our own point of view whether we have done something wrong and whether there is something wrong with our educational methods.

As parents, we should listen more and talk less. We want to cultivate people with independent thoughts. We just need to guide them, not force them to be the people we want them to be.