Too much will lead to boredom, forcing children to rebel and alienate their families.
Without it, it's just superficial and completely ineffective.
Like all parents, my parents love their children very much, but I think my parents can't communicate well with their children because it seems inappropriate to say that they can't educate. After all, they have trained two well-behaved college students, but you said that there is a good education method, which I really don't think is a good education method. For example, my father likes to pretend to be himself when facing children. He thinks I'm your father, and I'm right. You have to listen to me, and my mother always likes to repeat one thing endlessly, which sounds annoying to me. I also have a sister who is more annoyed with my mother than I am, so my mother will say, "I don't care, you don't listen, you can do whatever you want." I don't really like any of my parents' ways.
This is the way my parents educate their children, which is not very good in my opinion. Because they always feel that they are parents, they should be above them, which makes us very uncomfortable. Everyone says that parents are children's first teachers, and then gives a series of strategies on how to be the first teachers, but it is difficult to implement them one by one and stick to them. Among these strategies, I think the most important thing is that parents should treat themselves as parents, not at home, because what parents do will have a subtle influence on their children. Even if they are forced by life to do something helpless, you should explain why you do it, let him know that it is not easy for you and life, but in the end, you should say, "Even if life is difficult, it is not easy."
Parents should not pretend to be themselves, and your children can also be your teachers. You can ask him what he has learned every day and what interesting things have happened. When learning something new, ask him how he learned it, and then tell him how he learned it at the beginning, and tell himself what a fool he made in his study ... Through these, he can get closer to his children. Don't do it deliberately, just change the state you have been talking about to the state of listening, listen to your child's thoughts more, don't dislike his naivety, and ask him what he thinks and wants to do. In addition, parents should understand the child's attributes, see whether the child's personality is encouraging or oppressive, and promote the child's happy growth in an appropriate way according to the child's personality.
Every child is spiritual. They know what their parents did. They will observe and listen to their parents' behaviors and words and understand their thoughts. Therefore, as parents, we should think twice before doing something. I am a father or a mother now. Can I do this?