Psychological research has also confirmed that parents' negative emotions, whether anxiety, anger, indifference or irritability, are not helpful to children's growth. It can be said that with the growth of children, your children will also grow into a microcosm of you. Therefore, in the process of family education, parents should manage and control their emotions, which is a compulsory course that parents can't escape.

? How to educate children not to yell: 1. Be sure to control your anger and manage your emotions. When the child is disobedient and does not meet his expectations, remember to control his temper and restrain his anger. Think about it, you can't control your emotions, how can you expect a growing child to control his emotions well? As children grow up, parents' words and deeds will be projected on their children, leaving a mark on their growth.

2. Don't use the authority of parents to get along with children on an equal footing. When children are disobedient, don't use the authority of parents to suppress them. As we all know, parents' authority is innate and cannot reflect their abilities. Persuade people with reason instead of force, and listen to what children say and think. It is difficult for our parents to get along with their children equally, and they always like to manage their children as parents. Therefore, it is easy to produce contradictions and intensify them.

3. Looking at children with admiration can encourage and praise children from the heart. Appreciation is the driving force for children to move forward, but it is not just accommodating, it must be distinguished. After all, children are young and easy to make mistakes. An important role of parents is to be the guide and gatekeeper of life. Point out, correct and criticize mistakes. Consider the facts when criticizing, and don't dig up old scores.

4. Criticism is neither accusation nor unreasonable. Criticism should be well-founded, calm in tone, as short as possible, learn to be temporarily silent and suggestive, and give children time to reflect. Children are often depressed after being criticized, and parents should comfort them in time. In addition, parents are not perfect, and everything is not right, but proper self-criticism can win the respect of children.

5. When you want to be angry but can't help it, choose to back down. You can use psychological hints to tell yourself not to get angry. Or choose to leave that scene and enter a new scene to vent your anger. Come back after watering. ? Parents can't use mechanical and rigid parenting methods in parenting. ?