With the improvement of family life, children now want everything, but parents find it more and more difficult to control. What annoys parents most is that their children are disobedient. My son is seven years old. He used to be obedient, but now he has become disobedient. He used to be reminded to do his homework when he was doing it. Sometimes he takes the initiative to write for a while. Now he just doesn't like writing, but always wants to play. Now he is used to getting up and folding the quilt.
After a long time, answer questions around the theme. First of all, we should review our own behavior. Is that correct? To educate a child, we usually convince him by "convincing others by reasoning". As the saying goes: move with emotion, understand with reason. Don't educate if you have something to do. That's the same as saying nothing. It is often necessary to tell more allusions to inspire children's thoughts, with filial piety, reason, righteousness and faith as the main educational direction. When did you do it?
I believe all parents have met children who talk back to you. The above scenes of children talking back to their parents often happen around us. Many parents can't help but ask: they have worked hard to raise their children, but in exchange, the children are so rebellious. Why? In fact, this is only the process of healthy development of children's independent consciousness. Children who dare to contradict and argue with their parents will be more confident, creative and gregarious in their later lives. Therefore, parents don't have to mind their children talking back. As long as we can patiently and reasonably guide, the argument between parents and children will become very meaningful.