Many parents think that if children work harder now and sacrifice their immediate happiness, they can get happiness in the future. The happiness of life is complete. If you sacrifice his youthful happiness, he can't have a happy life, and adults have no right to make this choice instead of children and sacrifice his youthful happiness.
3. Don't ask children about their own level. There are two contents. First, you are a successful person. You can't force your child to reach and surpass his own level. The second is to assume that there are still some defects in your life, and you can't use children as substitutes to make up for your life defects. This is a problem of education in China, the core of which is that children are not regarded as an independent subject and a complete person with sound personality.
4. The achievements are just the boring figures boasted by vain people and feared by lazy people. You are neither vain nor lazy.
5, don't break the walnut shell, walnut kernels can't be eaten, and let the children eat bitter.
6, playing games is not bad, the key is how to play. Children have the final say at school and parents at home have the final say. Only in the game does he have the final say, so he has the motivation. Game spirit is three things: vitality, rules and innovation. We should cultivate this game spirit.
7. I also enthusiastically look forward to my child becoming a vice mayor or mayor in the future, but in fact, I think this possibility is very small, because it takes both efforts and opportunities to get to this position, so I ask my child to have a normal heart. Now parents often have an idea that I am excellent on a platform and my children must surpass me. This positioning is sometimes difficult to achieve, and parents and children are very painful.