1, first of all, you have to talk to your children about why you don't go to school and find out why. Nowadays, parents will be furious when they hear about skipping classes, and they will severely clean up their children, but they don't know that this will only aggravate their rebellious psychology. Nowadays, children have many ideas in their hearts. We should be friends with our children, know what we really think, and let them accept our suggestions.

2. Be children's friends and strong backing, make children realize that no matter what happens, parents will help children tide over the difficulties with them, and let children dare to tell their parents the real reason for not wanting to go to school.

Tell them similar experiences, teach them how to adapt to the new environment, and tell children that they must go through the adaptation stage in the new environment. This stage won't be too long. They should learn about new groups from the people around them and what to pay attention to when getting along with new classmates. In short, parents should accompany their children through difficult times and help them sum up their experiences.

4. external force urges. The external force that urges children to work hard is a long-term and unsustainable factor. But when children have self-efforts, they need to fight against inertia, and they need to supplement certain external forces.

5. convince students. Parents need to say something to their students that can make them grow up, and of course these words also depend on their age. Young people can't preach because they don't understand. Old people can't be like children because they don't listen. The size here must be well grasped!