Face up to children's rebellious period, rebellious psychology and rebellious behavior. This is a normal phenomenon. A child must go through several stages in his life, just like learning to crawl and walk. As long as it exists, it is meaningful and even positive. Therefore, parents' emotions should be stable and cannot be led by children. The more you face up to this matter, the more you will ignore some unimportant details, not make a fuss, and even get angry and extreme.

2. Set the boy free

Some parents don't trust their children's decisions and want to make decisions with them. When children, especially junior high school boys, enter the rebellious period, how parents still help them make decisions blindly will cause dissatisfaction and anger among junior high school boys. For junior high school students who have entered the rebellious period, they already have their own ideas and opinions on how to do it. At this time, the best way is for parents to leave their rights to their children and let junior high school students make their own decisions under the timely guidance.

3. Get along with rebellious boys in junior high school as friends.

Most parents think that children in rebellious period are blindly pursuing individuality. No matter what they do is good or bad for them, junior high school students who are in a rebellious period will object at the first time. Actually, it's not like this. What boys in rebellious period need more is companionship and friends.

They hoped their parents would understand them. At this time, parents should grasp their children's rebellious psychology, communicate with junior high school boys as friends, and let children open their hearts to their parents, and they are willing to ask their parents for help when they encounter anything at school. Doing so can also prevent junior high school boys from going their own way during the rebellious period.

4. Parents should learn to communicate.

Master the correct communication methods and communicate with children with a friend's mind. If not, you can communicate with your partner and let the parents of the right sex or his favorite relatives and friends play the main communication role. Give up everyone's airs, sit down, face to face with children, and be approachable is the premise of communication.

In addition, understand the child's life, his hobbies, play with him, and give him more time to control himself, but don't understand and know the child's life from the side, and don't get out of control. It is difficult to grasp the appropriate degree, depending on the parents themselves.

5. Yan Kuan, a boy in a rebellious period of education, has a degree.

In the educational methods of rebellious boys, adolescent children will have a sense of autonomy, but their control ability is not strong, and they can't correctly judge whether something is right or wrong, such as going to Internet cafes day and night and not loving learning. Therefore, it is necessary to grasp the scale of strictness and tolerance and let the children have a class in advance. What will happen if this goes on? Finally, let him think for himself.

6. Respect each other with children.

Parents can tell their children at the right time that he is no longer a child. While enjoying the freedom and autonomy you want, you also need to bear the responsibilities you need to bear. Let children know that parents will respect their children, but the opposite children must also respect their parents. Let children know that freedom and responsibility are also mutual.

A person has different roles in family, school and society. If a child wants to be recognized as an adult by his parents, he must take responsibility for his different social roles.