Parents always clamor for their children to win at the starting line, which adds a lot of learning burden to their children. In fact, this is also the biggest failure of family education. Children are human beings, and it takes many stages to grow up. In the initial stage, they need to learn some principles of being human and have a happy childhood, so that they can be cured for life. Parents' involution behavior is becoming more and more serious. When they get together, they only discuss their children's study. If the child's academic performance is poor, he will feel that he has no face and put all the faults on the child. They never know how to reflect, but only know how to make their children the best people.
Parents should worry about their children's mental health. Many adults have poor psychological defense and are prone to collapse when they grow up, and most of them have not received a good education. For example, some people who go astray have a rather tragic childhood experience. Since parents have given birth to children, they should take good care of them, not only paying attention to their academic achievements, but also making them develop in an all-round way and full of hope for the future, instead of making them puppets.
Children also have their own lives. Although parents should cultivate their children into useful people when they are underage, they should also respect their choices and not let them do things they don't want to do. This kind of coercion will only make them collapse.