In fact, the most common education in our society at present is criticism and? Should? Style education, this kind of education is conducive to making their children very smart and obedient, but it is actually very unfavorable to their personality development.
Criticism education is mainly to criticize education severely after children have done something wrong, so that children can realize their mistakes. The starting point is actually very good, but paying too much attention to criticism will distort the educational methods, such as taking some of the children's highlights and talents as a kind of? A mistake? Or take the child's Excellence for granted.
And then what? Should? Type education is just telling children blindly? What should and should not be done? The children trained in this way are really smart and obedient, but at the same time they will lack self-confidence and decision-making, and even have serious rebellious psychology when they grow up.
Therefore, encouraging education is a very effective way of education. In the long process of children's growth, parents should not impose their inferiority and ideas on their children. Instead, we should use reasonable encouragement to make children gradually become confident, find their own bright spots, and explore their potential and value. Only in this way can they better adapt to the life outside and give full play to their greatest value.
It is precisely because encouragement can help children find their own strengths and self-confidence, so children who praise often feel a wonderful sense of satisfaction and become more diligent and enterprising. It is also for this reason that teachers who love to praise their students can get their children's love. Moreover, compared with teachers who are always strict and serious, teachers who like to praise others are usually more approachable and easier for children to get close to.
Of course, encouragement should also be appropriate. Too much encouragement and praise will be counterproductive, making children too inflated and blind and confident, which is not conducive to future development.