Emotion is extremely important to the personality development of contemporary college students. Some famous psychologists have found through long-term research that among the factors that lead to a person's success, the individual's IQ only accounts for 20%, while the emotional intelligence that we often ignore accounts for 80%. It is concluded that in the development of life, the key to a person's success is emotional intelligence, not the IQ we shout. Therefore, even if the IQ education at this stage has cultivated people with excellent academic performance, even people with defects will be harmful to society if they are extremely indifferent. Imagine: a "talent" who doesn't know how to respect his parents and be grateful to the society will easily become indifferent and emotionless after entering the society. How can such a person contribute to society? How to serve the motherland? Therefore, family education for college students is very important and urgent.