In most people's minds, there is still a very traditional idea that men just need to go out to earn money to support their families, and raising children should be done by women. Therefore, women need to be full-time housewives to manage the housework and take care of the children after marriage. This behavior is typical of widowed parenting. This kind of parenting means that one party is seriously absent from family education. For example, the father at home has been going out to work for a long time, and the education for children has been in a state of lack. Or although the father is in a large and medium-sized school all the year round, he has no interaction with the children, and the children can't feel the father's love in his father. Some experts even believe that this kind of widowed parenting education is far more terrible than high-quality single-parent families.

If this long-term widowed parenting does great harm to children, it will not only make children become very introverted, but even appear very timid, which is precisely because of the long-term lack of fatherly love. Mothers and fathers bring their children very different ways of education. Only when children learn from their parents can they grow up more comprehensively. If children only follow their mothers in grades, what they learn from their mothers is limited. A father can bring a masculine education to his children that is different from that of his mother. Under this education, children will become braver and have more courage to face difficulties and setbacks.

So to avoid this situation, we should unite before deciding whether to have children. Both husband and wife must discuss the issue of raising children after birth, and make it clear that raising children is something that both husband and wife should accomplish together. This is the responsibility of both parties, not just one person. We must reach a consensus before giving birth, otherwise it will be more difficult for the child to adapt slowly after birth. In addition, for those treasure moms who like to do everything with one hand, they must learn to let go. Don't think that just because dad can't do anything well, they can't do anything. They will not participate for a long time, and things between family and children will become more and more irresponsible, which will also lead to the lack of father's company and father's love for children.

If parents are usually busy at work, it is also a very good way to let children take some time out of busy work every day and accompany them wholeheartedly. If parents can't do it wholeheartedly or seriously during this short time to accompany their children, then this kind of companionship is meaningless.