First of all, we should cultivate our sense of competition.
What is competition? The ancients said: "One is more than one, and one is arguing." . & lt& lt> it says: competition? Quot Fighting with each other "It can be considered that competition is a kind of psychological state and behavioral activity between individuals or groups trying to surpass or overwhelm each other.
As a contemporary young college student, we should establish a spirit of struggle and a sense of competition when interacting with classmates, that is, we should not lag behind in learning scientific and cultural knowledge and dare to stand out; On the road of life, we should dare to take the lead and strive to be an "early bird". Even though competition sometimes seems unreasonable, it may even require great efforts and a certain price, as long as the purpose of competition is to pursue truth, to mobilize people's initiative and creativity, and to study and work hard for the development of society, collective or individual, we must be brave enough to participate in the competition. It is not difficult to imagine that a person who lacks the sense of competition, has poor academic performance and is not active in his work can hardly win the respect and goodwill of his classmates.
Secondly, we should adopt a correct attitude and competitive mode.
It can be predicted that with the development of society, the competition faced by college students in China will be more intense. In the face of competition, we should adjust our mentality, participate bravely, abandon all old ideas, and make clear that there is a qualitative difference between the sense of competition and the idea of pursuing fame or vanity, otherwise we may fall behind the times and society. At the same time, we should also adopt the correct way of competition. Where there is competition, there is victory or failure. In the face of victory or defeat, we should maintain a healthy mentality of winning without arrogance and losing with grace. When we are at a disadvantage, we should change our thinking and methods to improve ourselves in order to catch up with each other, instead of belittling or destroying each other to gain our own advantages, let alone being jealous, whispering behind our backs or taking improper means. When you are in an advantage, keep an open mind, don't be proud, and don't gloat at when your classmates fall behind you. Quot deserved it, deserved it. "
Third, we should develop friendship in competition and promote competition in friendship.
Competition and friendship go hand in hand. Competition is a symbol of enterprising and positive, a driving force for progress, and makes life full of vitality. You chase after me and compete for height and length, which can best promote your continuous progress in your studies and positive thoughts. Especially in today's construction of Socialism with Chinese characteristics, fundamentally speaking, people's fundamental interests are the same, and they are all related to mutual assistance and cooperation among comrades. Collectivism is the basic principle of socialist morality, and serving the people is the core of socialist moral construction, which can become the code of conduct for most people even in the exciting market competition. Friendship is a special interpersonal relationship. As an ancient and beautiful feeling of human beings, it is a bond linking people's hearts and an important part of people's emotional life. Through friendship, we can learn from each other in study, inspire each other morally and enlighten each other ideologically, so as to spend a happy and fulfilling college time. So competition and friendship do not conflict in essence. Of course, if you base your competition on individualism, it may destroy friendship and friendship. Therefore, in the competition, we should also adhere to the principle of collectivism and actively develop friendship. Competitors should extend a hand of friendship; When students borrow notes from you or ask you for advice, they should help you enthusiastically. So as to encourage each other, compete with each other and climb together, and form a harmonious, friendly and inspiring atmosphere.
In short, students should compete with each other, eliminate jealousy in the competition, stress the spirit of cooperation and friendship, and cultivate the beauty of being upward and competitive. Students, ever victorious, the person who fights for it is the first. I wish you and your classmates eternal youth and vitality in the competition, and your friendship is growing day by day.
How to get along with introverts
In getting along with classmates, some students report that it is difficult to get along with introverted classmates, and it is also difficult to get along well with them. Generally speaking, introverts are synonymous with introversion. It is inappropriate to talk less, feel deeply, react slowly and be withdrawn. In fact, introverts also have strong communication needs, eager to get along with others, but lack initiative, expecting others to approach themselves actively and accept themselves emotionally. Therefore, getting along with introverts requires not only a proactive attitude, but also some skills.
First of all, we should respect and understand each other. The formation of a person's character is closely related to his background, experience and environment. Introverts are generally sensitive, good at observing small things, and often like to grasp some subtle details in communication, and even have psychological obstacles, but they will not show them directly. Therefore, instead of learning "role exchange", it is better to put yourself in their shoes, understand and accommodate them reasonably, respect each other and avoid being simple and rude.
Secondly, get to know each other as much as possible and shorten the distance between them. Introverts are not easy to approach, often because they lack understanding and understanding of their personality characteristics, as well as their study life and specific situation. If we can get to know each other with a positive attitude, get familiar with each other with practical actions, and get close to each other, then the psychological distance brought by personality differences will gradually shorten.
Third, infect, influence and drive them with enthusiasm, care and intimacy. Generally speaking, introverts are not good at talking and don't like talking. Sometimes, although I care about something, I don't want to take the initiative to speak. Therefore, when interacting with introverts, you should show enthusiasm, care and intimacy to eliminate their suspicion and avoidance tendency, and positively evaluate their words and deeds with positive inspiration and induction, especially pay more attention to guiding them to participate in some group entertainment activities, so that they can feel the happiness of the group and feel that they are valued, which is very important for deepening and consolidating your communication.
Fourth, get along with them with an open mind and patience. Because introverts are not good at talking, like to be taciturn, and pay special attention to other people's reactions when talking, they should be open-minded, patient and considerate when dealing with them. Modesty means holding an open mind when talking to him. Don't interrupt each other's speech at will. You disagree with some of the views put forward by the other party. You should ask questions in a euphemistic tone to avoid arguing on the spot. Patience is a way to express feelings, but also a way to awaken each other's feelings. Understanding is to understand what others don't understand, that is, to make an understanding response when talking to others. When talking to each other, you should stare at each other, avoid looking around and being absent-minded, and even look at your watch casually. At the same time, we should pay attention to the echo of expression and avoid deliberate affectation.
As introverted students, we should also fully realize that in the modern and open society, good personality characteristics and harmonious interpersonal relationships are becoming more and more important to the achievement of our cause. Strive to overcome shortcomings, be carefree, open-minded, and actively interact with people.