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How important family education is, just look at the nearest hidden corner. Are Chaoyang's parents bad to Zhu Chaoyang? They buy clothes, shoes and goggles and care about their new health. But what is the final result? Family is also a school, and parents are their children's first teachers. The importance of family education is much more important than school and society. Nowadays, many parents do not attach importance to family education, thinking that blind care is for the good of their children. But why are many children often unhappy?

Because children's unhappiness comes from parents' incomprehension. Many parents believe that as long as what they do is good for their children, they will not feel wrong. I remember watching a program that seemed to be "Youth Talk" once. There is a girl in junior high school who likes to write novels. She has already written more than 100,000 words, but her study is a little biased and her math is not very good. But my father felt that because that girl was writing novels all day and fell behind in math, he tore up the novels. The girl stood in front of her classmates and said it, hoping to get her father's understanding and support, at least not to object to his hobbies. Unexpectedly, her father decisively denied her and insisted on focusing on her studies and putting aside writing novels, all for her own good. The girl couldn't bear it any longer and began to cry.

So, do you think a father is bad for his children? From his parents' point of view, what he did seems to be right. Students should focus on their studies and make everything easy. But for children, their dreams are shredded. This is her beloved dream, so just because I am also good for you, I will deny it.

Don't think that the child is still young and can make decisions for him. He is also an independent individual with his own thoughts and behaviors. Perhaps as parents, we should tell them what to do with our own experience and experience, but we can't just let our children live in their own way, which will stifle not only their expectations for the future, but also their trust in their parents.