"strict father's loving mother" is the orientation of China's traditional education model on the family roles of father and mother. In the process of educating children, the father is encouraged to play the "bad face" and the mother plays the "red face". However, with the change of time, the mother's family status has changed basically, and the mother's influence on her children is increasing. Therefore, this role orientation seems to be interchanged in many families, which is also natural. Mother has become a strict mother who strictly restricts children's behavior, while father has become more and more open and inclusive and has become a loving father.

"Strict" does not mean that children must be treated in a rude way, but rather that their attitude and requirements are strict. Give your child a bottom line rule, don't touch it; "Kindness" is not love without rules, but education for children's love. Give children a free space to play and bloom. Whether strict or kind, the emphasis of the two kinds of discipline is also different: strict mothers are usually more strict and meticulous in academic and behavioral requirements. Strict father is usually very strict with children's education, and will pay attention to the big ones and let go of the small ones. Fathers cultivate children's healthy personality, while mothers cultivate children's rich emotions.

In modern society, it is better for parents to educate their children in a strict way. Mother is a strict mother. Mothers should learn to let go in the process of their children's growth, learn the "kind and firm" educational method, and have their own guidelines. Dad is a kind father. First, when children make mistakes, fathers can teach them some methods; Second, dad has strength, but dad doesn't push hard; Third, my father is rational and measured.

In a word, whether it is a father or a mother, whether it is a loving father and a strict mother or a loving mother in strict father, the most important thing is to follow the law of children's psychological development and adopt correct educational methods: strict, reasonable and patient. In the family of modern society, the ideal husband and wife have equal status and respect each other in the family. We should jointly create a warm, harmonious and loving family atmosphere. It doesn't matter whose talent is in the family, nor does the strength of economic ability. It is important that both sides respect and understand each other. When encountering problems, they can communicate with each other in a timely and friendly way to help each member of the family grow up better.