Some parents had a hard time at home when they were young. Now that they have children and have the financial ability, they try their best to provide their babies with material conditions for food, clothing, housing, transportation and play to make up for their regrets. Such parents were deeply impressed by the hunger and cold they experienced when they were young, and vowed not to let their babies freeze and starve. As a result, children don't wear non-brand names and eat non-fish and shrimp.
2, due to face, I am embarrassed to say "no" to the child in front of the salesperson!
Parents can't bear to watch their children cry in front of outsiders. Second, I am afraid that the sales staff will laugh at myself for being stingy and harsh on the children, so I have to give in to the children every time under the threat of crying, and buy expensive and impractical toys or inappropriate snacks.
3, busy with work, make up for family ties with material gifts.
Some parents feel ashamed to spend less time with their children, so they buy a lot of clothes to play with. On the one hand, they comfort themselves, on the other hand, they try their best to win smiles for their children.
Parents themselves are proud of luxury.
Parents themselves like luxury, conformity and showing off: even if the work is not busy and the road is not far, they should drive their children to kindergarten, even if they are afraid of shame. If they don't have a car, let their father borrow it or drive a bus to pick up the children. Usually shopping is unrestrained, spending a lot of money shopping in front of children, buying things for children regardless of actual needs, and buying what they like; Usually at home, I will exchange some ideas about spending too much money in front of my baby, and I am proud of it. The baby came into contact with it and regarded luxury as nature.
Specializing in minors: psychological barriers, internet addiction, weariness of learning, puppy love, rebellious confrontation, indifference to family, running away from home, depression and autism, inattention and other issues, has successfully transformed thousands of "problem" teenagers. Chongqing Boya is not a "special training school". The psychological "6 2" method is adopted here, and there is no high pressure, let alone corporal punishment. Children will not rebound after correction.