Respect children and encourage them more.
Parents should respect their children, don't always stare at their weaknesses, and don't compare their shortcomings with the advantages of other children. When in contact with children, parents should try their best to find the advantages of children, comprehensively evaluate children, try their best to tap their bright spots, encourage them more, and reduce their resistance to parents.
Empathy finds problems.
Parents should avoid studying and communicate with their children on an equal footing. Parents should not always talk about academic performance, which will put pressure on their children and doubt the motivation of parents to communicate. When communicating, parents can start with family affairs and stabilize their children's emotions before getting down to business.
Equal communication, emotional stability.
Parents should also learn to stabilize their emotions and learn to listen. It is certainly irrational for parents to educate their children with emotions, which will lead to children's resistance. Therefore, parents should not educate their children when they are impatient, irritable and not calm. After being calm, listen to children's voices with an equal attitude, actively communicate with children as friends, help guide children to solve their growing troubles, and accept and pay attention to children's opinions and suggestions with an open mind.
♀? Allow mistakes and be less bound.
Children can still be allowed to make mistakes when appropriate. This stage is a critical period for children to form their own opinions, and small mistakes are inevitable. Therefore, parents should allow their children to make some mistakes and suffer some losses, and don't excessively bind their children's hands and feet. At the same time, parents are the best role models for children. Children in the rebellious period have strong imitation ability, and parents' good words and deeds can exert a subtle influence on children.
Reduce the burden appropriately and reduce the pressure.
It is also a good choice to reduce the burden on children. Parents have the idea of expecting their children to succeed, and even some parents impose unfulfilled wishes on their children, and their children have to attend training after school, which brings great mental pressure to their children and makes them hate life. I hope parents can give them time to play while studying and arouse their enthusiasm.