I remember someone interviewed the parents of a student who was admitted to Tsinghua before, and they proudly said that they were all typed. They had to type the wrong question and didn't get full marks in the exam. In short, they were graded in Tsinghua.

I really can't imagine how this seemingly successful way of education tortured the child and how much pressure she suffered inside.

The correct education should be that parents and children grow up together as friends, rather than forcing her to embark on the road that parents like and design in the name of being kind to her. If so, what's the difference with assembly line production?

Children are planned their lives from birth, and then they follow the drawings, which seriously affects their personality development.

Secondly, the education of children should be based on encouragement, and we should be more patient in getting along with children.

It is because they don't know that they will ask questions, and they will make mistakes without experience. As parents, we should give him timely guidance when he makes mistakes or encounters problems, and help him look at the problem in a different way, instead of relying on scolding and yelling.

The child is a blank sheet of paper, and the parents' casual practices will be printed in her mind.

Studies have shown that children who live in a domestic violence environment for a long time are more likely to commit domestic violence in the future.

Finally, don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. In the process of educating children, we should put ourselves in their shoes and protect their self-esteem.

Some parents will blame their children in public, but they don't know that this will cause great psychological harm to their children. Although she doesn't know what self-esteem is, she can clearly feel the strange eyes of passers-by falling on her.